2007-01-21 13:58:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are a lot of guys out there how are looking for someone like you.
I'm 33 and have never been married so I know how it goes.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 14:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you about me first. I am 37 years old with 3 children and have just had 2 start over again for the 2nd time in my life. You need 2 give yourself time to discover who you are again. I don't know how long you have been married but you will survive. It is not easy and it is lonely but don't make the mistake I did and jump from one person to another very quickly because chances are they are going 2 be just alike. You need to have time to think about what you want and need out of life and what you want out of a partner and then you will be ready to find him.
2007-01-21 14:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by crystal A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the good thing is that u are still young and u just have to get out there reach out for what u want in life, as it is the only way u will get it. got to have courage and do something even if your afraid or unsure. it does seem awkward after being married and now finding oneself divorced, and feeling weird about just how to get back out there. get a new hairdo, go to the gym, get some new outfits, and go out, find another love, and leave the past where it is, and move on to the future. most women find themselves divorced and alot older, your lucky to be still young enough to move on and find happiness.
2007-01-21 14:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live one day at a time. Don't go looking for love it will find you. What I learned is look for some one you didn't think you would be attracted to. That is what I did and I have been with this guy for 8 1/2 years.
good luck
2007-01-21 14:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by angel eys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested in going out, like to the bar. My favorite thing to do is go to the bar and listen to live music. I know a bar isn't the best place to meet future husbands but it's a good place to interact with people and just have a good time. If you're not a drinker, neither am I but it's still fun. My going out rule is always buy your own unless you're truly interested.
2007-01-21 14:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put one foot in front of the other! Just go ahead and do it. Be positive and stay strong. Do not settle for just anyone. Now you have the chance to weed out the bad ones. Have fun with it. You are an independent woman. Good luck to you and your future.
2007-01-21 14:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this can be hard, but unbelievably you are still young. You have so much ahead of you, do things you have always wanted to do put yourself out there, join a gym club, take dancing lessons, and color your hair. Be single and happy there is life after a divorce you just have to want it.
2007-01-21 14:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont feel lonely to start with. try to find something useful to do. maybe learn something new .. go and meet people, but dont be to much in a hurry to meet someone asap. it will have to take time. bec when m en smell ur desperation, u will only end up with guys who wouldnt take u seriously, and u will have to go thru it again and again; and being lonely will only make matters worse.
discover urself again and know what u want and stick by it. but most impt now, is to find someting u love to do to take away ur mind from the sadness.
2007-01-21 14:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling and help to help you get past this and the pain it has and is causing you... Find a new hobby and make some new girlfriends to hang out with and talk to..... With thime start dating agian too. You may also want to go to a divorce recovery workshop somewhere... Sometimes local churches have them. Hope this helps and i will be thinking of and praying for you!
2007-01-21 14:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write down what your goals are. write down what your dreams and things you would like to do. start dating people and find someone that fits you better. now that you have learned more about what you
are looking in a partner. start dating a lot don't just settle on the next
one that comes along. date a variety of men and make them want you and love you.
2007-01-21 14:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋