Ok well let me start from the beginning. So this friday I was expecting the usual, my boyfriend pick me up for the weekend. But it was different. He had a "bridal shower" to go to... Well I asked.. why cant I go? I do live really close to you and you can pick me up and then everything will be just fine. My boyfriend was like NO we are all going in the same car when we get off work, there isn't enough room.. ect.. So I was like **** you. So I called him like 30 minutes later and he was at the mall? And says they made "reservations at dillards to open presents". Yeah I dident buy that bullshit so I called dillars and nobody was there opening presents. So I got my mom to take me to the mall and see if he was there and sure enough, he CAR (which he said he did take btw) was there. So Since the mall was closed by then he was in the movies, So I waited and he walked out with another girl. He ended up saying it was one of the ppl he works with sister and he had to take her home and i stayed..
2007-01-21 13:54:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well I stayed with him.. yep. dumb huh? He made me feel like I was stupid. And i dident really get a chance to talk to anybody. but I did get that girls number he was at the mall with, should I call her? and get to the bottom of it.. call his work and ask? (it is a small buisness) we are expecting a baby next moths and have been together for 2 years.
2007-01-21 13:55:49 · update #1
lol too old for me?!?! what are you talking about hun? no he isn't
2007-01-21 13:59:21 · update #2
No offense, but he treats you like you're stupid because you're acting stupid. Leave the other girl alone - let her have him. Dump him and give your baby up for adoption so you will have no reason to keep his sorry self in your life. Be more careful next time.
You apparently don't think that you deserve any better, but doesn't your baby deserve parents who don't lie, cheat, and do stupid things?
2007-01-21 14:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by gelfling 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, don't ever think you are dumb. If he was at the mall with another girl, that would be the end for me. You are pregnant hun. This is the time he should be there for you of all times! Not out shopping with some woman! HELLO! If he's doing this now...just wait until the baby arrives. He'll probably just go cheat on you! (I don't know him personally, but if he's already lied to you and was out with another girl, chances are he WILL cheat, IF he hasn't already!). I'd say forget him, and just be happy with your baby. He doesn't deserve either of you!!!! It really sucks it took 2 years for you to see how he really was, but don't make the mistake of hanging on and wasting another 2 or 3 years of your life with this jerk! UGH I hate men like him!!
2007-01-21 14:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If what you say is true, sounds like he's not doing what is proper for the relationship. A sit down with him is imperative. Tell him what's on your mind.See what's going on in his mind. Hopefully, nothing has gone on other that this. Be open, but not stupid. When my wife was pregnant, she was so short tempered with me, I didn't want to be in the same house as her. Going out with anyone, was a tremendous relief. Might this be you ? Not to say he can't simply be an ***. I got that way too from time to time. Emotional time for BOTH this pregnancy can be. Fix it if you can. Leave if you must.
2007-01-21 14:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'm sorry he lied and chaeted on you. I belive you should just leave him and let him be in the baby's life still or you can just get him to pay child support when the baby is born. He sounds like a dick. Good luck hun.
2007-01-21 14:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Trying to conceive 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would end the relationship , he was with another girl , Please take our advice he is not worth it, if he got you pregnant or anything like that , he needs to pay child support ..Trust me , he is not worth it , but you are worth more than he will ever be cause you are a faithful girl , girls like you are hard for a great guy to find ..I hope some nice guy , comes in your life and showers you with real love ..Good Luck!
2007-01-21 14:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye su should call her im sorry he was lying LYING big time and u shouldnt be with a guy like tht even if u do have a baby he doesnt derserve u guys he lied and u caught him ur not stupid he is he couldnt ome up with a better lie u call her asap and find out whats goin on if he cheateed its up to u tp say bye or stay
2007-01-21 14:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definatly dump him but first get some information from the giel and see what relle happen? Try talking to him and ask him why he didnt tell you the truth in the first place. Tell him you afraid you cannot trust him ne more and you just have to move. Wish you luck
~olivija
2007-01-21 14:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn`t sound good for you ....Do what you will but if he`s doing this before the baby I`m sure it will only get worst after the baby arrives..Good Luck..
As for calling her, that`s totally up to you.....
2007-01-21 14:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're expecting a baby with this bozo, I'd get to the bottom of it....don't attack the girl though....it's not her fault....be nice and you might get an honest answer....
2007-01-21 13:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by been_there_done_that 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if he make you fell so bad way stay with him you can live with your mom and have the baby
2007-01-21 14:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by andrea t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋