I got married and meanwhile i came to know that her sister too was interrested in me. later i developed an affair with her . now i can not part with bothand i cannot keep both .what should i do.
2007-01-21 13:44:39 · 40 answers · asked by the disturbed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SWEET! You are living the dream.
2007-01-21 13:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Greed...Is Good 3 · 2⤊ 10⤋
You have no choice in the matter anymore, your lack of a moral compass has already written your fate. Eventually they will find out and they will both leave you and hate you probably. It's happening already, and it just hasn't caught up with you yet. I would like to say i feel bad for you but I don't. It's your doing. I hope you will use this experience to grow up and learn to care about others feelings. And If you ever make a vow to anyone again...keep it or don't make the vow, because the fact is....there will always be an opportunity to cheat . You just have to be man enough not to do it. You have damaged several lives and probably ruined a family. You had no right. you should have said no.
2007-01-21 13:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other people have said it .... you simply have to grow up and fast! Your immaturity shines through and you need to learn that relationships are not a game to be played and see what happens. Your wife's sister has a lot to answer for here as well. And you have the cheek to ask what you should do!! Come on now, salvage what you can before your world collapses ..... which it may do anyway. Kick the sister into touch and direct 100% of yourself to your wife. IF it all goes wrong ... and you lose her ........ then you totally deserve it. Harsh though this may seem, someone has to tell you.
2007-01-21 20:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do??? Be ashamed of yourself !!!
First you should break things off with your sister-in-lust, and then you should be honest with your wife. She'll probably do two things, slap you silly and divorce your poor excuse for a man self.
You have made a mess of your own family.
Get yourself into therapy.. and stay single for a while, that is if your wife leaves you.. If she doesn't and she takes pitty on you.. Get on your knees and thank God for a forgiving wife, and never screw up again.
Good luck
2007-01-21 13:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look who do you love the most your wife you are married so forget the affair with her sister who must be a slag for doing that to her sis and your a jerk for cheating yiour dick need to be chopped off tell them you wont one of them or loose them both al the people that said you can have a 3 some there wrong and dickheads kill them
2007-01-21 22:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this is deep core, I'm sure some people love to dump some load on you. I guess you've got two choices, one is to play both, which is not cool and it's just matter of time. Second, is to choose the one you love the most. this is the pain that comes along, my friend.
2007-01-21 13:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. thats some deep **** man.... That sister who you had an affair with sounds like a slag......
Are you off the Bold and The Beautiful dude????
If the sister you are having an affair with ends up pregnant the answer is yes...
OOOOHHHH god men are hilarious!!!
2007-01-21 13:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a sick turd. How can you do such a thing to your wife. When she finds out, not only will it destroy your relationship with her, but you'll ruin the lifelong bond that she shares with her sister. This is the ultimate betrayal. In the end, no one will want you and you'll be left all alone to waddle in your own mess. Loser.
2007-01-21 13:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Flora 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this shows that you have attachment disorder. perhaps you experienced day care very young? or the loss of a mom really young?
because of your emotional problems, and maybe her sister's emotional problems, you've acted without responsibility and honor and possibly destroyed a family.
Why should your wife keep you?
2007-01-21 13:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by t jefferson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cu and ur sister in law crossed a boundary that u shouldn't have i think u should part with her. if u leave your wife for her there is a chance that she will do the same to u maybe with your brother ,your cousin or somebody else.
2007-01-21 13:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by nat j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your wife and leave her sister alone. If you truly loved your wife you wouldn't be cheating on her and if she finds out not only are you going to break her heart but you are going to destroy her relationship with her family.
2007-01-21 13:48:40 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋