wat are the pains?

Question

we had unprotected sex. that afternoon she started getting smallcramps. its around the time of her period. but she always has a late period. i wasnt in her for more than a min. she is fourteen i am thirteen. i didtn ***. wats the chance of her being preg. and wat are these pains for?

Answer 1

Can you say "Daddy"?

She's pregnant! Congratulations!!!

Now, the first thing you need to do is start a college fund. (Everybody needs a college fund!) Next thing you need to do is make some decisions... Water birth? Home birth? Epidural? Episiotomy? Circumcision? You should start talking about names now, since it does cause alot of problems between couples these days. Of course, it's never too early to start applying to pre-schools... the good ones are sooo hard to get into!

Listen, kid... you're asking this question because you know that pregnancy can be a consequence of unprotected sex. That's one thing in your favor. Think about it logically for a minute. If unprotected sex causes pregnancy, what can you do to avoid this worry in the future?

Ideally, you won't have sex again until you are much older and find the person that will be your wife. I know, I know, not too many people want to wait that long... or we meet a person that we think will be "the one" and go for it. But like I said, that's ideally.

If you choose not to wait, for your own sake if for no one else's, USE PROTECTION.

Do you want to be a father now? Can you afford it? Think about the life you've imagined that you want to have. Becoming a father at such an early age will change all of your plans.

Shall we even start to talk about what her father is going to do to you if you knocked up his little girl? My husband would not take kindly to your messing with his little girl. In fact, anyone messing with his little girl would likely find themselves on the side of a milk carton! Becoming a father would be the least of your concerns. In fact, he would probably see to it that you would never want to be with a girl again.

I had my first child at 15. I love that child with all my heart. But if I could go back and change things? I wouldn't have had sex at such a young age. The life that I had imagined I would have was gone. I was a parent and that takes precedence over anything I would have had planned.

Use protection or don't have sex. I hate to say it this way, but your hand can most definitely not get pregnant! It might feel good for a little while, but in the long run, well, it just won't.

You've got to face the possibility that this girl is pregnant, but she wouldn't have felt any symptoms of pregnancy as early as that afternoon.

One more important note... A couple of years ago, I finally met that person... the person that I was meant to be with for life...

And the sex has never been better! He was definitely worth waiting for.

Good luck.

Answer 2

she shouldnt be getting pains from having sex even if shes pregnant. You should not be having sex. I was 13 when i started having sex it made for many complicated relationships, and really bad looks from peers. PEOPLE WILL FIND OUT. these things can not stay secret they wont. keep it in you pants, for the next 5 years and things will be so much better.

Answer 3

Kid, she's probably just getting premenstrual cramps. She's not pregnant. There is sperm in the precum secreted by your penis, but nowhere near enough to get her pregnant like that. I also have a late period, and if she's actually that worried about it, tell her to talk to her parents about putting her on birth control. It evens your periods out.

Calm down and don't worry. :)

Answer 4

Since she is young her period is not regular, but if you had unprtocted sex even for a second she could be pregnant, you can have preejaculation and not know.

Answer 5

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