am a married girl...happily married might i add...but having an affair for the last 3 month just for the thrill...to a married guy...the sex is totally crap and i have better sex with my husband but i really enjoy being with the other guy...but if push come to shove and i had to chose i would rather be with my husband.. the only problem is i find myself wondering about his wife a lot...i am so curious to know what she looks like , how their marriage is, what she does but he does not disclose anything about her. why do u guys think i am so curious about his wife??
2007-01-21 13:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by LYN p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think some people are better at monogamy than others. IMO, monogamy is not the norm for humans or other mammals. There is a clandestine thrill here and you have to deal with it. Most will say that you should control yourself. I cant say I have, but I have come to the same conclusion as you. I know its wrong, but I have done it several times. I'm working with myself to quit this habit. good luck.
2007-01-21 23:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm more curious as to why a self-proclaimed "happily married" girl is having an affair in the first place...Since the sex is "totally crap", is it more for emotional closeness?
Forget about this guy--and his wife--go get some counseling to figure out what's wrong with your own marriage before you permanently wreck BOTH yours and your lover's.
I have seen the resultant train wreck of this kind of situation very close to me, and it is NOT pretty...
Good luck.
2007-01-21 21:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Julia A 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you are truley happily married you would not be having an affair.... You really should work on your marriage to your husband and stay married and cut the affair off now!
2007-01-21 21:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are in this competition with the wife, and wonder who is better looking, just a way to boost your low self esteem. because if u were truly confident about u u would not need to be having an affair with anyone.
2007-01-21 21:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More proof men are just the currency women trade in.
Women love to walk around thinking, "He's married, but I can get him from her with my mad p u s s y skills any time I want."
So many women have absolutely no respect for their own sisters. Disgusting. Your behavior is reprehensible.
2007-01-21 22:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell I dont know....maybe you just wanna so when she finds out youll know who to watch your back for, why not do your husband a favor and divorce him. At least hed have a chance to meet someone that isnt a self centered, lying, cheating #$@!^
2007-01-21 21:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Happily Married" women do not have affairs, nor do they wreck other people's marriages.
2007-01-21 21:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should NOT be married. I hope your husband finds out and boots your *** to the curb. SHAME ON YOU!
2007-01-21 21:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant be happy, if you were you would nt be comitting adultery.....God hates sin...repent from your sinful nature before it destroys you for ever....seek God and you shall find Him....He is love, and he will forgive u if you ask Him too.
2007-01-21 21:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
BECAUSE YOU NEED TO BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAN HER AND THAT'S WHY HE IS SEEING YOU. NOT BECAUSE HE IS JUST SEEING YOU FOR SEX.
IF THE SEX SUCKS, THEN DUMP HIM. WHAT'S THE POINT?
2007-01-21 21:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by KAT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋