I'm 18 and have been seeing a 28 year old for a while but I'm wondering if there's some deep underlying baggage waiting to get out. I could see the reasoning of a 50 year old going for a 20 something for his vigor, etc., but most men at 28 are still virile. I know I'm a good catch and I'm not insecure but she has a consistent history of younger men. what's up?
2007-01-21 13:00:02 · 12 answers · asked by AK-47 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She is avoiding a myriad of baggage from men of her age. Have you ever thought that might just be because you're a good match? Stop worrying about it, just enjoy the NOW.
2007-01-21 13:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by melomego 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most women in their 30's are in their prime. More sexualy active. And women this age know that men around 18 or 19 are as well.
Most boys by the time they reach 15 have crushes on women in their 30's. Same goes for older men who want younger women. But in the long run i would not count on a long term loving relationship with this 28yr. that you are seeing. But yeh if it's just the under the covers thing that is all your looking for then stay with her. But other wise if your wanting more you would be better to stick with someone your own age.
Good luck & take care.
2007-01-21 13:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are some of the reasons older men go after younger women? Maybe the same reasons!!!
OR maybe she just really likes you and is overlooking how many years you have been on this planet in this body.
What do you see in her?
I think it is unfortunate when people consider other people a 'catch'-- indicates ther is no actual love there--- in which case, why are you together at all?
2007-01-21 13:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rani 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 21:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) she may enjoy being a "mother figure" towards younger men, being able to boss them around
b) she may enjoy their naiive, more innocent and fun outlook over the cynicism of older men
c) she may like young, taut bodies and those who can go all night!
d) she might get a self esteem boost that she has a younger man than her friends
e) she might be copying her mother's behaviour
2007-01-21 13:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answered your own question twice...Vigor..virility...I rest my case....But hey...You'd be suprised how many 30 something guys out there are Just as vigorous and virile as you Cassanova.....so don't go gettin all cocky....or some vigorous older guy may steal your thunder.....I rest my case.
2007-01-21 13:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know. I prefer people that are my age or around my age myself.
2007-01-25 12:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she likes younger men what can she say?
2007-01-21 13:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u guys have alot of energy in the sack !!
2007-01-21 13:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by realist86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre scared of getting older.
2007-01-21 13:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by alli p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋