I suffer from depression and I have a 2 yr old child. My husband thinks that I rejected him for the last 2 yrs. He has tried to tell me but in the state of mind I was in I didn't think to much about it. Anyone who deals with this may understand-the medicine and just your state of mind isn't right. You just sit there some times like a bump on a log. He began to talk to a married girl at work and they really clicked. He gets attatched easily. They e-mailed and he spoke alot about this problem and how it is killing him and he has had his heart broke all of the time. Then one day she tried to kiss him. he did stop it and told me about and I did freak out. He told me he would no longer speak to her-LIE. He continued to speak to her and he continued to act strange at home and distant. Then we had a BIG fight about her and the next day he thought we were done and she tried to kiss him again this time he did not stop right away. I love my husband & want things to work but now he won't kiss
2007-01-21 12:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by saj2404 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to worry about whose fault it is, you might as well get a divorce right now.
The question is, do you want to work on having a good relationship with your husband, or not? If you do, you might consider getting some counselling together as part of your treatment. If you are making an effort to work on the relationship, I'd agree he has a responsibility to you, but if you aren't even interested in working on things as a couple, then you've basically dumped him and are waiting for him to pull the trigger.
If you really love him, wake up and realize you need to try to give back _something_ to him - or at least show him that you are trying.
Once again, I don't want to blame _either of you_. It really doesn't matter, all that matters is whether you two want to work on your relationship going forward or not.
2007-01-21 15:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 10:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Lie to your husband about stupid meaningless cr*p if you want things to ever work out. When he asks what is on your mind or what you were thinking, try being completely honest no matter how much it might be upsetting. When 2 people are trying to make things work, Lying is not the best way to go about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It hurts
2007-01-22 04:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Hawkear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go or better yet kick him out. The fact that he cheated on you was enough to do this but he did not consider the effect that all of his actions would have on his child. He is selfish. They always try to blame someone else.
2007-01-21 13:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to see your doctor and get on medication and get help for your depression... You may also need to go to marriage counseling with your husband. I sure hope you can work on and save your marriage with your husband... I will be praying for you and this situation.
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2007-01-21 13:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suffer from severe drepression,too like what it sounds like you are suffering.
Depression is sickness, and during your vows you promised each other to stay together in SICKNESS and in health, FORSAKING ALL OTHERS.
He hasn't so divorce his *** !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-21 14:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋