2007-01-21 12:44:42 · 15 answers · asked by Such Iss 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because she's insecure.
2007-01-21 12:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by steffers4979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just teasing you, I'm sure!
Don't be so concerned with numbers-- How you look is how you look; old or young, the number doesn't matter. If you feel you look older than others your age, try to see if you have some health issues you should work on-- Most premature aging stems from poor health.Or update your wardrobe a bit. If you feel you look fine--and you feel fine--- just laugh off your friend's amateurish attempt at humor.
On your friend's next birthday, bake a cake and put 15 extra candles on it--- or buy a funny card that has a big 60 on it if they are only 45--- Laugh! You'll look younger and feel better!
I always tell people I'm older than I am--- then they exclaim how GOOD I look! My friend has lied about her age for years--- but the years show! So people who don't know her well think she looks terrible for her age-- Go figure!
You are not your body--- your body will die, but you will not die. Be more centered in your real identity--- then people can't get you so riled up over little things.
2007-01-21 20:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a very good B-Day lunch. Not a very good friend as well. Friend should be reminded that these jokes are for April Fools Day. I think the friend wanted to be the centre of attention here instead of the birthday person.
Take Care.
2007-01-21 20:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She meant it as a joke, just for laughs. Especially since she told you about paying the waitress. It was just a joke. Don't take it too seriously. It was completely harmless.
2007-01-21 20:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by xheartxcorexgirlx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your friend is mean and insecure. Apparently it made that person feel better to attempt to humiliate you. I would tell the person how you feel and if anything like that happens again, truly evaluate if this is a friendship or a former friend.
2007-01-21 20:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by searious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a joke!!! If a friend took you to lunch and paid for it, I'm sure the friend wanted a few laughs--you're not offended by this are you? I'm sure that's not what the friend intended.
2007-01-21 20:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a friend! That is just cruel. I hope your next birthday brings you a true and kind friend.
Happy birthday! and for what it's worth, I don't think you look a day over 34!!
8-)
2007-01-21 20:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was supposed to be funny. By the time we all reach 41, those kind of things are really stupid.
2007-01-21 21:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by copestir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look great!!
(I can tell from here).
Dont stress over cruel 'friends'.
Hang out with good friends.
Birthday hugz to you.
.
2007-01-21 20:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they were trying to be funny, but obviously don't really know what funny is............Or because they want to knock you down a couple notches, jealous maybe, you didn't give enough details....
2007-01-21 20:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off there not your friend cuz thats not nice and no one should do something like that, its just a sick joke and i`m sorry that, that happened to you *hugs*
2007-01-21 20:54:13 · answer #11 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋