Does it help you or does it make you stumble????
2007-01-21 12:36:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Right now they just bum me out. I'm sure once they heal they will help me out.
2007-01-21 12:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Neev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps me because I have learned from them and because I am stronger because of what I have been through. Some of the scars were self-inflicted because of bad choices or because I didn't know how to do any different at the time. Some of the scars were caused by others and I wasn't at all responsible for the pain that was inflicted. In those cases, I have tried to help others who struggle with healing from those same kind of wounds - to let them know there is light at the end of the tunnel and life, love, and happiness after the pain. If I can help someone else then that is the good that comes from being wounded in the first place. Not that I would have wanted to go through it, but at least it wasn't for nothing.
2007-01-21 20:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by puter_patty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have made me more cautious about who I let into my life and who I trust. At times they make me stumble especially when current scenarios start out to similar ones in the past it makes me revert to past experiences and I stumble....For the most part they help but its a double edge sword that I still have to deal with today....
2007-01-21 21:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of both. I stumble until I say enough. Then it helps me as a motivator.
2007-01-21 20:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ndpndnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have my scars. some of em help but others make me fall, not just stumble.
2007-01-21 20:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by flee1906 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it helps me because I know if I made it through that than I can make it through anything...& the scars are there to show me that
2007-01-21 20:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by × 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you learn from them and move on or whether you keep thinking about them and crying. Did you deal with them? Did you learn anything?
I have some that I dealt with and learned from, and others and I did not deal with, did not learn from (don't know why these things happened; am not at peace with them) and did not move on (am sad about them), and others that I dealt with and learned from and moved on (learned how to deal with different types of people based on past experiences with them).
2007-01-21 20:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everone has scars the strong make it work for them
2007-01-21 20:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it helps. it shows i survived something. and, since mine are noticeable when i wear a bikini, it's a good conversation starter.
2007-01-21 20:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kel Kel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open wounds. They hinder me.
2007-01-21 20:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋