Only practical advices on keeping your husband happy, please?
2007-01-21 12:24:04 · 23 answers · asked by Cynthia T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a husband who is technically younger than my wife I would say that age difference is not so relevant neither in bed nor in a overall relationship (unless the difference is great). I married my wife because I love her for everything she is and not because of her age. We simply fell in love with each other in spite of what other people had said.
Now, let me say what keeps me happy. She is an easy going and confident person. She liked all my friends. She went out with us and was always "one of the guys". She gave me attention and admired me when I needed it most. She made sure she satisfied my wildest sexual fantasies (she dressed up the way I liked, etc.). She kept my Mom happy by assuring her that I was in the best hands of a woman who knew how to take care of her son. In other words she did things not out of selfishness, but in order to keep us both happy.
I think she really succeded. ... and so will you.
2007-01-21 13:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kalistrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is not unusual for younger men to be attracted to older women, face it "you have been there, done that'' and know how to please your man. Be yourself, that is obviously what attracted him to you in the first place. I have been with my Fiancee for 5 years now and I will tell you, that good communication is the most important key to a healthy relationship. Also Good Sex is important too. Ask him what pleases him sexually, tell him what things you enjoy. If Both of you are on the same page and want to please each other, then you will have no problems in that area, and unfortunately it seems like Sex and Money problems are the #1 reason for couples splitting. Focus on those two things, and Loving each other and all else will fall in place..
2007-01-21 12:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and most important be at peace with yourself. Don't fret, he married you he loves you. Love him back, Respect him , and talk to him. Spend time with him. Ask about his day, show a interest in his life when he is away from you. Look for things you enjoy doing together. Be best friends. If you take a interest in things he does, learn about things he has a passion for, life will be sweet. In a perfect world he will do the same.
Try to be sensitive to him. If he needs time by himself give it to him. Don't try to change things you don't like, give him time and he will change on his on, or not.
I was lucky enough to land a lady somewhat older and she is the most wonderful person I have ever had in my life. we are all the time doing little things for each other. We look for things the other may want or ned, it is so cool. good luck. I hope this helps a little
2007-01-21 12:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by FREE4ALL8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, SCORE on the younger guy! Advice? Don't cheat or batter him. Don't badger or preach. Do your best to have a fun time when in his presence. Do things you'd want him to do for you (including having good sex).
2007-01-21 12:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shouldnt be to hard.. I rarely even date anyone even a year younger than me (I'm male) I prefer older women.. they are more secure, and know whats what and what they want.. young chicks are well to be polite.. a bother and generally an annoyance IMO.. and its been that way since I was 14.. I'm 47 now
2007-01-21 13:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same bout as you what we do is sit and talk and sometimes we would watch movies and snuggle.my husband is a year younger than i and we have some interest and try to do them.
2007-01-21 12:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by skyelark 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's returned to you I would just suggest paying attention to him when he's talking, going out together doing fun stuff that he and you both enjoy doing with each other, being creative in the bedroom, etc.
2007-01-21 12:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Younger men you have to keep thier attention...try doing some of the things that he likes to do with him. Try "coming down to his level" I did not know how to word it. Be spontanious. Just get up and go rock climbing or Hikeing. If surprise him with something that he likes to do. Sometimes it is more fun to do something on the limb and kind of risky (not illegal).
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