She says that I'm corrupting our daughters by picking them up from elementary school in stockings and heels. How can I make her except that this just makes me at peace with myself?
2007-01-21 12:14:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cant make her except it, you can help ease her worries though. Maybe she's really worried it'll lead to a sex change and you'll dump her. Talk to her about it... And don't drop your children off in women's clothing sometimes you hafta sacrifice for your children this is a time. Others aren't very excepting of your practice and WILL take it out on your kids. So don't do it at there school, If you care about them. But other then that I say just reassure her your not going anywhere. Show her you love her no matter how you dress. ^_^
2007-01-21 12:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Queen Burn 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you want to mess up your daughters by them thinking it's ok for guys to dress like a woman??? Do you have ANY idea how much harm your doing to your daughters, especially at that young age when they are MOST impressionable.
I don't blame your wife for not approving. She is probably disgusted by her husband thinking he has to dress in drag.
Obviously your not content with the fact that God made you a man, well get over it, and come to grips you were created a male.
2007-01-21 20:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You aren't necessarily corrupting your daughters by doing this, but you could be placing them at risk for ridicule and ostracism by their peers. Kids in school are cruel, especially so as they advance in age
. In our society, tranvestitism practiced by women is seen as acceptable, whereas by men it is a deviance of the norm.
Even though it makes you feel at peace with yourself, please think of your children. Try compromising with your wife. Wear them where ever you like, but leave them at home when picking up the kids.
2007-01-21 20:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by J T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of I'm a married women and there's no way in hell I would like for my husband to be in a dress and stockings like his momma. You need to step up and be the man-husband the the way your wife married you to be. If you had thoughts and feeling of dressing like a women you should not have gotten married and had kids.
2007-01-21 20:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
IS THIS A TRICK QUESTION?
PLEASE! YOU ARE GOING TO HUMILIATE THOSE GIRLS. THEY WILL BE TEASED TO NO END. YOU DON'T PICK THEM UP DRESSED AS A WOMAN, WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU.
YOU NEED TO CONSIDER THEIR FEELINGS. IF YOU WANT TO DRESS AS A WOMAN ON YOUR OWN, DO IT. BUT DON'T FORCE THE CHILDREN TO WITNESS IT AND BE SUBJECT TO HUMILIATION WHEN THEY CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
2007-01-21 20:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by KAT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless this was a trait you shared with her prior to your marriage, it's really unfair of you to expect her to accept it now. Plus, it is emotionally damaging to your kids.
If she divorces you, don't be surprised if you lose any chance at custody and unsupervised visitation with your girls.
2007-01-21 20:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by S. W 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
first things first, your name is Fabien and you want it Fabienne because???...
second thing -
control yourself - do it for your kids man
just control the urge - wear it at wherever you go without being a reason for classmates to tease your kids about
dress normally in front of the kids
cheers
2007-01-21 20:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by gr1m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't, I don't know of any woman that would put up with that, well yeah I do but they are pretty desparate. but any self respecting woman would have left you by now.
2007-01-21 20:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by pooh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's just mad because you look better in her clothes than she does.
2007-01-21 20:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THATS SAD!!!!
Fabienne what kind of name is that???
I bet your lying anyways!! Good one!!!!!
2007-01-21 20:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋