he never calls or come by to see his kid except at the day care. do you think something is goin on or is it just me?
2007-01-21 12:09:54 · 8 answers · asked by Andre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
REMEMBER HE WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR WIFE LIFE
THEY HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER
SHE DOESNT NEED YOUR PERMISION FOR HER TO TALK TO HIM
INSECURITY IS NOT GOOD. HAVE FAITH. SHE IS WITH YOU
2007-01-21 12:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably making it awkward for the two of them to feel comfortable enough around you to engage with one another, in your presence. If you are jealous or angry, when he comes around, they probably feel it is better to see each other when you're not around. Your wife has to talk with him. He is the father of her child, like it or not. The worst thing you can do is make the situation any more difficult than it already is, by trying to come between the baby and the father. Try being a little more understanding of the situation, and remember that you knew what you were going into before you married your wife. Don't create a problem now that did'nt exist before she became your wife.
2007-01-21 20:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me as if your wife still likes her baby's dad. I would test her out and say she can only call him when you are home, see what she has to say then. Or maybe she keeps ringing him to try and get him to see his kid at home and he's not interested. Good luck.
2007-01-21 20:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My rule is that something has to be done in secret, then something is going on, mentally or physically, but at the same time, he is the father of her child, and they are going to have to commnicate. Maybe she is trying to respect you...
2007-01-21 20:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by SexiTash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She can talk, yes. But why in your absence?
Honesty is lacking between you and your wife. Get a paternity test done on her next child.
I'm sorry I'm blunt.
2007-01-21 20:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What's a babyfather?
2007-01-21 20:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes its okay for her to talk to her babys daddy they have a child together
2007-01-21 20:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Bri P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he just doest want to hurt your hearth so he doesnt want to call when you are around
2007-01-21 20:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Bulan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋