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have u been a third party before without knowing it until u get to know the truth that the guy/gal is attached or married? how did u get to know the truth and how did u cope with it and wat did u do???

Answer 1

A few years ago I was living with my sister and met a really cool guy. He was very attentive, had a good job, a nice car, a home of his own. We saw each other constantly for about two weeks, I was hooked. He even met my sister who I lived with, came to see me at work, did and said all the right things. Then he didnt call one day. The day after that he had some really good excuse and we went out that night. He said that he had a really nice place in a nearby town he wanted to take me for dinner, etc... When I got home that night my sister was waithing for me at the door. She had been out with some girlfriends and they brought a new girl that she hadnt met before. They were chit chatting and when the girl told my sister her last name my sis asked if she knew Rick so and so. The answer was yes, he's my husband, why? WOW! My sister said that she knew him from his job, he delivered Pepsi. Seems wifey had been out of state at her fathers deathbed and funeral for the 2 weeks her hubby had been seeing me. I was furious and went straight to his house. It was a stupid thing to do but I was so mad. He wouldnt answer the door at first, finally she came to the door not knowing why I was there. I told her everything. She and I ended up sitting on their front porch for hours that night talking about all kinds of things and actually turned out to be friends in the long run. She left the cheating scum bag and guess who he tried to run to - yep. No way, I never even thought about it. Dont you think about it either, if someone will cheat on their mate they will end up cheating on you. Dont be a rebound relationship. There is an unattached person out there for you. Good luck & be strong