2007-01-21 11:36:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its NOT ME! Just a situation I am aware of. I think don't be such a careless slap---! Poor guys and I hope it was only 2!
2007-01-21 21:27:22 · update #1
I would tell them both the HONEST truth and when the baby is born, get DNA testing. Not just for the "fathers" but every child has the right to know who their parents are.
2007-01-21 11:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Denise H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The moral thing to do is tell both guys that there is a possility that they are the father of your child. Then split the cost of the paternity tests. Then sit down with the father and discuss what he is able to do to help with the care of the child. IMaybe he has no job and you do but he is willing to take care of the baby at least he is saving you child care cost . Remeber you slept with these guys don't turn it into a Jerry Springer moment stay calm if they start yelling just walk away and get a court ordered test
2007-01-21 19:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by littledevilinyourcup 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you dont know who the father is then you have to tell both you need to explain that you are unsure which of them it is and find out what each has to say and what they plan on doing if it is theres then talk to your doctor and ask when is the soonest you can get a paternity test done so that your all of the line
2007-01-21 19:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOT u? dunno what that means... but i'll give u advice on what i do understand. If you only tell one, and the other one is the father, he misses out on going through all this with you (and the baby) think about all those magical bonding experiences that he won't be able to go through. He'll miss all the kicks and ultrasound pictures and hearing the baby's heartbeat, and being there for the birth (if he wants to be there for those things.) Both men should have that option in case it is his baby. To be fair to both of them they ought to both know that you are pregnant and it could be their baby. Then you can get a paternity test later on to figure out which one it actually is. It might hurt the one who isnt' the father to know that he was there for all of that and it isnt' his baby, but at least the one who is the father won't have missed out on those things unless by choice.
2007-01-21 19:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 guys + 2 condoms+ 1 promiscuous girl = 1 unfortunate baby
Get a paternity test after the baby is born.
2007-01-21 19:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i gather its for a friend ha ha,find out when your(sorry,you friend)due date is,this will give you(your friend) an idea of date of conception. the "pampers" website will help you do a pregnancy calendar.if this doesnt help, i'm afraid its a matter of telling both men and waiting until the baby is born and get a DNA/paternity test done.good luck.
2007-01-21 19:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by stokies 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm confused......
take a paternaty test, just be honest, at least it's only between 2 guys, not like, 6 or something. This happen all the time.
2007-01-21 19:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by danac210 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so..u boinked 2 blokes, but used a condom...n now ur preg? damn....just tell 'em both. i assume ur not seeing either of these men on a regular basis? sorry if u r...as i said, just assuming. u can get a paternity test dun b4 the baby's born, but it increases the rick of a m/c. my ex-best m8 (evil cow..grrr) told her ex bf (one night stand..apparently) dat she's pregnant and that its his, he didn't believe her as on the night in question he was far too drunk 2 remember what happened..so he doesn't kno if he performed or not. and at the time she was sleeping with her then bf (clearly he dumped her sorry butt..cheatn lil hussy). anywayz, they both decided to go have the test, he sed if it is his then he'll get bk wiv her, thinkin she'd w8 til after the baby's born n all that. anywayz, cut a long story short, turned out it wasn't his (or her bf's at the time..tut tut tut) and she's just txt me randomly sayn she's had a m/c...now...she may b lying 2 make me get the 'father' 2 go round n c if shes ok...but she might not b..
anywayz, u can either hav the test dun now...or after its born.
ooo..bugger...when u said not me, does that mean its a friend of urs? whoops, if it is im sorry!
2007-01-21 19:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
so i gather you had sex with two diffrent guys and then got pregnant. That sucks, i recommend: don't sllep with so many people and you would know which person's the baby is. But since you don't know, you need to tell them both.
2007-01-21 19:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go have a paternity test done. It only costs about $75 and it only takes a couple of weeks.
2007-01-21 19:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋