When my husband came home on the 23rd we had sex and then three more times after that. I just found out I am pregnant. Is my husband the father of my child. I did not use protection with the other guy.
2007-01-21 10:59:22 · 24 answers · asked by angie M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You are either trash or this is a bogus question so ask Maury P.
2007-01-21 11:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by All_Dawgs_Go_To_Heaven 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's most likely, your Husband is the father. ( I am not certain because woman cycle sometime change. You will know best about your cycle. I am working with what you provided.)
The following facts can be found under " Fertile Window" in the source listed below.
Sperm survive inside a woman for 3 days on average, with survival time up to five days is considered normal.
The most fertile period (the time with the highest likelihood of sexual intercourse leading to pregnancy) covers the time from some 5 days before ovulation until 1-2 days after ovulation.
Also, I find the part about " The Phases-Timing Chart" on the same page to be helpful to determine your ovulation phases.
With a rough calculation, I was able to determined that the Guy (Had sex 7 days after Dec. ovulation) is most likely "NOT the father" and that your Husband (Started 1 day before Jan. ovulation and then 3 more times ) is most likely "the father."
Confirm with your GP, this is only a rough calculation with the times you provided, OK.
Good Luck :)
2007-01-21 13:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a close one, what u could do when the baby is born is get the other guy to do a paternity test and that will either confirm if he or ur husband is the father, either way u need to find out it wouldn't be fair to have some guy raise someone's child unknowingly and it's not fair to the child either. Though really if u are having an affair u should use protection not only do u stand the risk of pregnancy but u can also pass on std's. Hope all work's out for ya.
2007-01-21 11:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by louisem28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell were you thinking???? How pregnant are you? IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE PREGNANT AND HAVE A PERIOD!!! You need to ask your doctor. First thing you should do is find out how pregnant you are...next thing can you live with possibly passing off another man's child as your husband's? Then you need to be tested for an STD! You can give one to your husband AND your unborn child. What are you going to tell your baby? I can just see this, Darling, mommy had to screw around on daddy so who you think is your daddy is just someone else mommy was having sex with at the same time; and mommy doesn't believe in using protection. Hon, if you need to cheat, you have no business being married. I feel for your husband and your child. But, you need to do some soul searching and be honest with yourself and find out why you cheated. Oh and here is another question...are you from a part of the country where cousins have sex with uncles, brothers, sisters, mothers etc.??? Sounds like Jerry Springer. AND don't forget, the daddy (whoever he may be) can go after full custody seeings as how mommy has no judgement.
2007-01-21 11:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by skye 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you got your period on Dec 10, you would have ovulated on approx Dec 24.
I believe your husband will be the father.
BUT YOU WILL NEED TO TAKE A PATERNITY TEST TO BE SURE!!! !
Because, if your husband made you pregnant, you would only be 3 1/2 weeks pregnant.
IF your lover made you pregnant, you would be 7 weeks pregnant.
And I HOPE THE BABY DOESN"T GET A STD!!!
2007-01-21 11:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by kabmiller@verizon.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear me!What were you thinking?
Anyway,you've heard enough about that.I would suggest you tell your husband,as it can be really awkard having the other guy come round after hearing you are pregnant,to find out if he's the daddy.Immediately after the child is born,do a DNA test.
Just remember that you should eventually live up to your mistakes.
I hope for your sake that it is your husbands child.
Good luck,you're gonna need it!
2007-01-21 22:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is the father. Your body would have gotten rid of the other guys when you had your period. You should not worry about your husband not being the father.
Did you have an AIDS test done???
2007-01-21 11:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that a lot of people are judging you for this so you dont need to hear it from me to. I would say it is your husbands baby. if I were you I would take this oppertunity to deal with your mistake and get your life back on track for the sake of this baby. Get tested to make sure that you didnt get any STDs and make a pledge to be faithful from now on. If it were me I wouldnt tell my husband it will just complicate matters. Good luck with the baby.
2007-01-21 11:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was smart not using protection! See you on the Maury show, girl! The times are too close together to determine who is the father.
2007-01-21 11:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by angie20k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he is..but you'll need a DNA test to be sure. By the way, I suggest if you are going to bringing a child into this world, you stop cheating on your husband.
2007-01-21 11:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Gayle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could go either way. Having a period is not a sure sign that you are not pregnant. When I was pregnant with my first son I had a period 5 days after the conception date (conception date determined by ultra sound.)
Good luck.
2007-01-21 11:19:44 · answer #11 · answered by Dark Star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋