Me and my best friend were both 16 and on the water polo team, and yesterday we were hanging out and we finished a wine bottle. And then we sat in bed together and then he kissed me and i don't know why but i didn't push him off, and then i got an errection. Then my mom called my name from the hallway and he stopped and before she walked in he jumped out of the bed and said he had to leave. Is this like faith trying to warn me or something. I mean he has jet black hair with shimmering green eyes and i love looking into his eyes but i would never want to screw him or be screwed by him. And then yesterday in the shower he looked into my eyes and he had like a moment or something and i got out quickly. I mean i still love my girlfriend and i don't want to lose her but i haven't told her about this and i tell her everything and its killing me. What does this mean? I mean he dosn't sound gay.
2007-01-21 10:58:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Wrestling
It doesn't mean anything except you may be curious. At your age, you can get excited by any physical contact such as a kiss and having drank some wine will only make it that much easier to get aroused. Better yet, maybe you are secure in your manhood enough to recongnize that another man may be good looking or have beautiful eyes. Don't put a lable on yourself (gay or straight) and just take life one day at a time and see where it takes you.
2007-01-21 11:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by puppy2adopt 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You should not entertain the thought. Disassociate yourself from this friendship. Don't let something happen that you may regret for the rest of your life. He took advantage of the opportunity because he knew you were vulnerable due to the wine you were drinking. If you had not been drinking wine, would you have let him kiss you? His hair is jet black and shimmering green eyes. You must be attracted to him. If in doubt seek professional help. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-21 11:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If on your waking international you're in touch in men you are able to properly be bi-sexual why does all people evaluate it to be one or the different? besides NO, you're not to any extent further gay in case you dream of sex with yet another dude. you do not say in case you already know this individual or no longer. yet you do change into wide awake of strongly with the male body that is why you had this dream
2016-10-17 02:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont now about the man to man kiss but the water polo thing makes you gay
2007-01-21 11:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by bretski 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That s is gay you should nt let him kiss you like that and even take a shower together like that. tell him that you not gay that you have a girlfriend and that you don t like gay people don t even tell your girlfriend that you let a boy kiss you and take a shower with him together that might be worse she probably will break up with you. Just forget about it and let him know that you not doing it no more just move on people make mistakes and they move on.
2007-01-21 11:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily, being gay means you have a sexual preference towards sex with he same sex, your friend maybe gay, you maybe gay, both of you maybe, you can't really work things out on such an incident like this, it takes time to realize who you really are inside.
Don't worry about it, theres nothing wrong with being straight, bi or gay. Try talking about it with your friend, re-assure him your still friends and everything, but that's not what your into, etc...
Don't stress yourself out over it.
2007-01-21 11:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Keiko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, don't worry about it. Alcohol does weird things to people! The "moment" during the shower was probably him just thinking the same thing. I would have to go up to him and clear things up. Make sure that he understands that it was just an accident.
2007-01-21 11:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by jacob_71792 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you are just growing up and are bound to go through the different life experiences.
There are different things in life that do excite us sometimes, but i would not worry about it too much.
Dont encourage ur friend though.
because it would not take him long to take advantage of ur curiousity.
2007-01-21 11:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong section.
And it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. It could though. Chances are, you were buzzed from the wine and weren't aware. And maybe it's just how he touched you that made you feel good.
2007-01-21 11:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
maybe your bi......hmmm jet black hair and shimmery green eyes huh? sizzle sizzle.... well i assume if you had an erection then yeah your eather gay or bi.... you choose....im not eather one im straight all the way so what do i know.....
xo mickie lee
just so you know this is the wrestling section.. its not like you 2 were wrestling in bed and umm i dont no!
2007-01-21 11:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by MICKIE JAMES #1 FAN 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋