Why is it such a problem when white men say that they like or love white women?

Question

I recently had a report to do in school about where I see my self in the future personally and career wise, this report was also to be present in front of class. In my report I talked a lot about how I want to marry, have children, and basically live the white picket fence/dream marriage to a white women. I also talked about how I thought white women are most beautiful, caring, sweet, hardworking, intelligent, and motherly women in the world. After my teacher(I won't mention her race) read my report she took me aside and told me I could not mention the part about wanting to marry and liking white women because its inappropriate. Keep in mind some of the kids doing reports talked about wanting to grow up and be pimps, hustlers, rappers, pornstars, and one kid who was gay got to say he would hopefully be able to marry his boyfriend in the future. But for some reason a white male saying that he wants to be with a white women is deemed inappropriate. I mean I see lots of Latin guys in school and even in the media talking about how much they love Latin women, but it seems like it sort of an unwritten rule that if your a white guy you can never specify that you love white women. Why is that? If I praise white women it doesn't mean I hate non-white women, I just can't see myself every marrying or growing old with anything but a white women. I just look around my town and see so many happy and loving white couples and families that I want something similar.

Answer 1

Some people are perennial palm wringers and live their lives in fear of offending someone. There is nothing on earth with preferring one race over another. I am white and I NEVER found women of any other race physically appealing to me at all. So what? I don't care if Asian men don't find white women attractive. Why would I? It makes NO DIFFERENCE who black men find attractive. I could not care any less what black men think about women. If Hispanic men find black or Asian or Native American women alluring--good for them. I don't. Just blow off that teacher and be yourself. Don't succumb to the political correctness virus that is plaguing the nation.

Answer 2

Did u have to mention the race of the women...why is that even important. Why couldnt you just have said "I wanted to be married to a kind hearted, effectionate woman..." I understand where your teacher is coming from, you sound like a white supremist. She probably was protecting you from getting your *** beat after school

Answer 3

I get where you're coming from...and I know your intentions were honorable. The problem is that your statements can be easily misconstrued. It sounds a little too much like "white supremacy"...do you know what I mean? It's idealizing the "white American dream" and white women. Now, it would have been a real problem if you had said "...in an all-white America," but you didn't (and don't believe in it, I don't think), so there really shouldn't be a problem. But your teacher had to make a judgment call. She may not have even been personally offended (who knows?) but she was worried others would be, and all it would take for your teacher to be fired, and for you to get suspended, would be some kid misconstruing what you said (which, considering the content, could be easy to do), and getting upset and telling his parents that the teacher let some "white supremacist" talk to the class about the "superiority" of white women.Teachers always have to consider things like this, and try to create an environment where a lot of different groups feel "safe" and not stigmatized. In other words, ultra "PC", and in our litigious society, schools are highly motivated to make sure teachers understand this. I know it seems unfair, but try to see it from another perspective.

Answer 4

I have to say that everyone who has preceded me in answering this question has made very good and valid points. Reverse descrimination is a very real thing, too. I would only add that, in my perspective, there is a definite reason for this "PC to be against whites". It is because white people still make up the majority of the population in the USA and are still considered the most successful race here, so we are subject to the most resentment. When that changes, which may be soon considering the statistics concerning the rate at which the spanish-speaking population is reproducing, we may be treated differently, because we will be viewed as less of a threat. "The underdog is always right" seems to be the motto of PC America.

Answer 5

You poor thing, you should talk with your principle. It's not right for your teacher to tell you it's inappropriate to say what kind of female you want to marry....unless you said she had to have big boobs or something lol.
Like you said i've heard Latin guys say they love their Latina women, and Black men who love their sisters and so on.
Don't be intimidated to say what you feel, you're not hurting anyone with your statement just stating your prefrence. What next you can't say you want to marry a woman with blue eyes knowing that the only women (mostly) with blue eyes are white women. Wow i'm babbling now so just stand up for yourself is all good luck :-)

Answer 6

Well, it's the same thing when you make a joke. Blacks, hispanic, asian, indian, etc. are abosolutely off limits. You must not mention them in a joke unless you want to branded racist and spat upon. But jokes about Irish, English, French, Newfie, Scots, etc. are absolutely loved and accepted by all. I can't see the difference.

I chalk it up to this - some people are more equal than others in our two-faced, double standard society.

Answer 7

Well next time try naming a particular ethnicity that way the teacher will not be able to say anything. For instance you could say "German, Irish, Norwegian," etc. You are not wrong in what you said at all, but you have to realize the hypocritical society we live in, and protect yourself from retards who would deny you a right to the same freedoms they enjoy.

Answer 8

Because of your teacher's own insecurities about Anglos, and her low self esteem, you should ignore what your teacher said. To want to wed and be in love with a person of your own race , religion, and morals is something another person has no right to question. Your teacher pulled the race card.... you answered honestly, and from what I can infer, quite eloquently as well. That other races take offense with that presentation shows lack of understanding and perhaps even jealousy.

Answer 9

it would have been the undeniable fact which you named them the main loving, being concerned, candy, sensible, and motherly females. i do no longer think of your determination for his or her splendor might have mattered. the suited of the white wood fence with a family grow to be somewhat ok. i might have understood if she had asked you to tone it down, like asserting you seen them as between the main etc females or on the 2nd you observed your self marrying a white woman, yet you probably did no longer comprehend what the destiny held. as a rely of actuality that your speaking and giving those attributes to white females might look demeaning to the different races of scholars or no longer politically remarkable giving the state of united states of america of america (while you're no longer in united states of america of america, i actually do no longer comprehend why). Now, if she allowed different scholars to declare the remarkable comparable issues you have been going to declare approximately females/adult males of their respective races then she has certainly no floor to stand on and can be racist herself, or if white, a self hating white or too politically remarkable. Now i'm very proud she allowed the gay boy to talk on his document, yet i'm disgusted she allowed teenagers to talk on being pimps, hustlers, and worst of all, PORNSTARS. i think you ought to document that to your crucial. that's no longer an sufficient occasion to be giving scholars EVER.

Answer 10

I would not take offense to such a statement and I think it is a disgrace in the USA that you cannot have free speech in this area. We all have our preferences and you should be able to express them.