I recently had a report to do in school about where I see my self in the future personally and career wise, this report was also to be present in front of class. In my report I talked a lot about how I want to marry, have children, and basically live the white picket fence/dream marriage to a white women. I also talked about how I thought white women are most beautiful, caring, sweet, hardworking, intelligent, and motherly women in the world. After my teacher(I won't mention her race) read my report she took me aside and told me I could not mention the part about wanting to marry and liking white women because its inappropriate. Keep in mind some of the kids doing reports talked about wanting to grow up and be pimps, hustlers, rappers, pornstars, and one kid who was gay got to say he would hopefully be able to marry his boyfriend in the future. But for some reason a white male saying that he wants to be with a white women is deemed inappropriate. I mean I see lots of Latin guys in school and even in the media talking about how much they love Latin women, but it seems like it sort of an unwritten rule that if your a white guy you can never specify that you love white women. Why is that? If I praise white women it doesn't mean I hate non-white women, I just can't see myself every marrying or growing old with anything but a white women. I just look around my town and see so many happy and loving white couples and families that I want something similar.
2007-01-21 10:30:46 · 23 answers · asked by Dillon 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Good For You!!
I think its great to be proud of your heritage and know what you want for the future..and its nice to hear your praise for us White Woman..
In todays liberal, P.C. world..its no longer acceptable to be white, proud, and vocal about it.. Stand up for who you are and do not be afraid or embarrased to let everyine else know..you were not being "racist" or speaking hate to any other race or heritage, so I do not see why it has to be such a big issue to your teacher or anyone else in general...
2007-01-21 10:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
It might have been the fact that you named them the most loving, caring, sweet, intelligent, and motherly women. I don't think your preference for their beauty would have mattered. The ideal of the white picket fence with a family was rather okay. I would have understood if she had asked you to tone it down, like saying you thought of them as one OF the most etc women or at the moment you saw yourself marrying a white woman, but you didn't know what the future held. The fact is that your talking and giving those attributes to white women could seem demeaning to the other races of students or not politically correct giving the state of America (if you aren't in America, I truly don't know why). Now, if she allowed other students to say the exact same things you were going to say about women/men of their respective races then she has absolutely no ground to stand on and might be racist herself, or if white, a self hating white or too politically correct.
Now I am very proud she allowed the gay boy to speak on his report, but I am disgusted she allowed kids to speak on being pimps, hustlers, and worst of all, PORNSTARS. I believe you should report that to your principal. That is NOT an adequate example to be giving students EVER.
2007-01-21 10:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by bishonenofcacophony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dillon I don't see anything wrong with what you said in class. I commend you for wanting to stay in your own race. There is nothing wrong with that whatsoever. Thanx for complimenting us the way you have. :) After all in my son's 4th grade class they got a school report card that didn't mind stating that 100% of all blacks that failed the TAKS test in 2005 were promoted by the grade placement committee. But only 80 something percent of white students that failed were promoted. Do the teachers holler about that being wrong? Probably not. Best of luck to you in your future. :)
2007-01-21 13:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Dana A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you probably were politically incorrect for mentioning "white" in regard to who you wanted to marry and have a family with.
I don't see why, though. This is because I've seen all of these questions about Black men loving Asian women, Asian men loving white women, etc., etc. etc.
I also don't think your teacher was fair in the fact that she said nothing to the people who wanted to be gangstas, nor to the gay guy who wrote about wanting to marry his partner. Let's be fair about this...If you were "wrong," so were all of them.
2007-01-21 10:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being told that you CANNOT mention race, but the gay guy can mention homosexuality, then you can go to the school board. If, however, the teacher is trying to protect you from retaliation due to the racist environment at your school, then just leave race out of your report, unless asked.
2007-01-21 10:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by Richie.Rich 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a black girl but from what i heard so far ,Asian girls are the most hardworking, caring,sweet,and motherly women in the entire universe. I Do agree most white girls are intelligent, but that is a truth that stands by itself without being relative to any race. about the beauty Let just say THEY ARE YOUR TYPE.
2007-01-22 07:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its great that you want to marry a white woman because it shows that you love and appreciate the women of you race.
2007-01-22 06:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by KBrooks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it soundls like you are putting down other races when you praise "white women" excessively.
wouldnt it seem excessive if the gay guy said gays are superior in every way?
you should keep your options open...who knows you might fall in love with a woman of another race someday.
You shouldnt worry so much about race. besides why are you talking about ALL white women? How many wives are you planning on having?
2007-01-21 10:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by brainiac 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If u say you only like white women in a repot u are being a racest cause u don't like all kinds od women. If u just said U want to get married to a beautiful women no one would have bitched.
Some white women are beautiful, some black, some asian, some latino, it all depends on the women
2007-01-21 10:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Did u ought to point the race of the ladies...why is that even important. Why couldnt you purely have reported "i had to be married to a sort hearted, effectionate woman..." I comprehend the place your instructor is coming from, you sound like a white supremist. She in all danger grow to be retaining you from getting your *** beat after college
2016-10-07 12:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋