Ok,
I'm engaged to my bf and I plan on marring him in collage.
I just don't know if I should in feb. cause I'm due on 02-12-2007.
It's for my 1st baby boy,2nd child.
My fience already know's he's getting a step-son and step-daughter.
Please help me,couples.
My mom & dad don't belive I'm prego and I am really.
-Sarah
PS. this is the best realtionship I've been in
since my ex-husband got rid of me on October 2nd,2006.
2007-01-21 09:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you just ended a marriage 3 months ago, are already pregnant and broken up with the father, and now are with someone else and looking to get married, seriously, you've got some major problems.
Jumping from one man to another isn't a good way to live. Never mind the fact that you're obviously having unprotected sex with people you barely, know, you have no commitment with these people. Is this what you want to teach your children?
I agree that come therapy could really help you to see what it is you want from your life, in stead of jumping from one temporary relationship to another.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-29 06:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,I'm not so sure about this,I think your on the rebound because..You are lonely and pregnant and you were used to being married.Focus on the baby right now instead of your own wants and desires.To much stress can cause problems with the birth.After the baby is born and you have known this guy at least a year,then maybe you should consider marriage.Good luck with everthing,hope you make the right choices for you and your kids.
2007-01-29 09:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by 8th wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah,
Congrats on finding such a loving man that can share his love with not only you, but his to be step children. I do think you should focus on the denial of the coming grandchild. Family is very important. You want your mom and dad to be a part of your new and loving family to-be. Also, you don't want your special day to by overshadowed by the "drama".
The choice is ultimately yours and your fiances, but make sure you have a good and strong start to your life together.
I myself am the step mom to 4 children, with two ex-wives. Marriage is hard, especially when you throw in "exes" and "steps". I love my husband with my whole hart, but without the support of my friends and family, our hurdles would have been a lot harder to overcome.
Good luck and know, if he truly loves you now to marry you, he will also support you clearing up any uncertainties among family. Then it will truly be a wedding day to remember.
One step at a time.
2007-01-29 06:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by jessnbethsmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OCT 2nd 2006??? that 3 months ago.???
and your already engaged and PG???? The kid isn`t his??
Oh my God this is so doomed......hold off on that marriage honey lets make sure this guy is the right guy. If he is still around in 6 months then go ahead. At least you will have been with him 9 months the minimum time it takes to really know someone.
You are a very nice person take some time to make you and your child's life happy
Glad you asked and Good Luck.
2007-01-24 07:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're rushing into marriage WAY TOO QUICK! I mean, it's only been 3 months with this guy and you haven't even given yourself time to get over your husband yet! Be good to yourself first - don't rush into a marriage just because your peers are doing it or society claims it's the "in" thing to do. BTW, you might want to work on your spelling! Spelling correctly is very important in college, especially when you're doing term papers and English essays!
2007-01-29 03:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should wait until after college. It's a lot of stress, I heard, to be married with kids in college. You cannot change the fact that you are having a baby (congrats...do you have a name?? email me and tell me...). If you wait, to get married, then you guys don't have to worry about all of the debt either, both from having an infant and your tuition.
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2016-12-02 20:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O boy look at you.
The thing is you need to raise your kids and keep your legs closed after the youngest is 18 then you can f..k any one you like
boy o boy some people
2007-01-27 00:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by the black hand 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
when guys ditch u. its always mean your not ready to become a mother. so u need to consider what is right to become a mother. dont just do whatever u like.
2007-01-27 06:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by chajen v 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thinks you really need to learn to spell.. Hope you teach your kids the correct spelling of words.
2007-01-29 03:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by K G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋