My long-distance boyfr. of 3 years told me tonight that he's really fed up of being far from me. He's tried to get a job near my town but he couldnt find one. He told me that its been too long like this and he feels like I'm not making any efforts to be closer to him. He says he is getting fed up of being of seeing me once a month, he gets jelous when he sees his friends with their girlfriends and yesterday he came home feeling depressed because he could not see me. He told me today that something has to chage within the next 6 months as he doesn't want to continue this way. He said that he feels like I'm too comofortable with the way things are and I'm doing very little for chaging the situation. He was very angry tonight and he said he feels extremely frustruated and he wants us to find a solution but he said he feels I always leave the decisions up to him. I feel quite upset because I didnt expect him to raise this issue in this way. But I guess its time to do some something.
2007-01-21 09:43:25 · 3 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like one of you better move to where the other one is or you won't have the problem much longer.
2007-01-21 09:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is upset because he is so far away from you and he wants to be closer... I can understand why he feels the way that he does. At least he is being honest with you about it and that is a good thing. You may need to be the one to move closer to him and get a job out his way or move half way there. If this does not change in six months then he wants out and i really do not blame him for how he is feeling. Long distance relationships are very hard to keep alive and going. Please try to do what you can to work on and get closer to each other if you really want this relationship to last. If you are not willling to move or help get closer to him to help the situation and you dont want the relationship to last and you dont care about how he feels then let him go and move on with your life. Please follow your heart and do what you know is right to do:)
2007-01-21 18:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question.
2007-01-21 17:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by S. W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋