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Question

where im at boys and girls are seperated until we have socials anyway the hottest girl in the academy really really likes me and so we started going out im trying hard to get into her class so i can see her but the thing is shes told my friend she was wearing a black thong and smiles and waves at them when im not around im wondering if its worth it i mean she acts like a wigga but im half black and im wondering does she think i act that way cause iv been raised by my white grandparent early in my life and it hasnt gone away im buff only to be healthy im smart only to survive and i have very strict guidelines i follow summary im not like most if not all guys my age

Answer 1

Don't be too Cool around her you may appear to be aloof and she may get the wrong message that you are not interested. Don't bull rush her but be attentive and wait for the moment when you can say how you feel. The key to being a good friend / boyfriend is to watch closely to what she likes , listen carefully to what she is talking about and get well versed in those things. Girls love that and then as she turns to you then you can share the things you like with her. this should eventually lead to a healthy strong relationship. Good luck

Answer 2

sounds like she's just a tease.
be kind of cool around her ( i mean back off and don't seem so anxious)--see how she reacts to that. it might make her understand that it is you that she wants.