2007-01-21 08:56:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sexuality and sexual expression are two different things, so I guess you could "live the lesbian lifestyle." And how the heck do you have 300% for best answers?!?!
2007-01-21 16:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just become lesbian. If you weren't born lesbian, there's nothing you can do to become one. I'm sorry, but you're whatever sexuality you are for your whole life (whether straight, bi, or gay). If you are bi however, and want to turn lesbian, that's a different story. You can't exactly turn lesbian, but if you repetitively try to turn yourself off or gross yourself out whenever you're around a guy that would normally attract a straight/bi girl, you'll eventually find yourself having no interest in guys, which would make you a de facto lesbian. It's basically what happens to a bi girl who has bad experiences with guys.
2007-01-21 17:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have so many wiseguy answers to this question I could do 20 minutes of stand up comedy on this topic alone.
Truth be told, you either are or you're not. If you are unsure it would be best to wait to do anything with anyone of any sex until you are sure. When the time is right and the person is right you will know. Don't rush it, but don't be afraid either.
2007-01-21 17:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You either are, bi, or straight. If you don't care for guys and like girls then homo. If you like both bi. Just like the guys and not the girls then hetero. So first figure out if you are first, then get a girlfriend if you are, and poof you are lesbian. Now wasn't that simple, just keep it simple because you are or are not there is no maybe. If you want and like sexual and emotional relations with the same sex then homosexual. If you want and like sexual and emotional relations with the same and opposite sexes then bisexual. If you like and want emotional and sexual relations with the opposite sex then heterosexual. It is just that simple then just seek out a person that has the same emotional and sexual needs as you.
2007-01-21 17:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Pierce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be easy to say something funny to your question... but just stay on the right path...
everything that glitters
is not gold
and the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence...
You may be curious, even tempted to join the crowd... but you will be happier just taking a deep breath and being patient.... wait... look before you leap.... speak to some of your christian counselors first...
2007-01-21 17:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would like to experience what it would be like to be with a woman. Maybe not exactly wanting to be lesbian. Go for it.
2007-01-21 20:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by amuseme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a nice book called
So You Want To Be A Lebian
also its not just a matter of want. The feelings and love have to be there
2007-01-21 18:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not somethign that u can just choose to do its what u are and how u live your life. so if you arent doign this cuz u really love females then dont try to be a lesbian.
2007-01-21 17:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by beautifulpersona 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't just become a lesbian. You have to be born that way.
2007-01-22 16:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ever want to do that, you are ither born like that or not. I would never want to be put throught that again and wouldnt wish it on anyone. Stay staight
2007-01-21 20:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋