cut off all ties rather than to remain platonic friends?
Is it really that hard to talk about the weather when all you want to do is hold them?
2007-01-21 08:54:46 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Cutting off all ties is best. That way you won't be constantly reminded of the conflict.
2007-01-21 08:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends,dear, if the distance is permanent or temporary. If it's permanent, then by all means, cut ties. Only if you can't handle just being the best of friends with the person. You need to know, though, that there is the opportunity for the two of you to reconnect some day, perhaps when you're older and have job opportunities closer to Mr. Yummy. If this is a temporary sitch then you need to chill your jets until he comes back. Patience really is a virtue. Good luck. Nana
2007-01-21 17:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature to crave more for something or someone we less likely to get or be with.
If you wish to hold someone,and there is no chance for that, that wish is gonna turn into desire. It will keep increasing if platonic relationship in place.May be the best idea is to avoid seeing the person and go as far as possible from the person, It might not be possible to get over it when the love is strong, but the pain sure will be less.
2007-01-21 17:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by cherub_nub 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jessica how do I understand where you are at!! Yes, it is easier to get that person out of your mind. Staying friends only prolongs the pain and heartache! You need time to heal and realize what you love and don't love about this person. As time goes by, your pain will dull. Get active and out with friends. Allow yourself to talk about this person and grieve the relationship - but don't keep contact until you are healed and know that you can handle it - though, if you really love this person, even then you will have to guard your heart to not open up old wounds. Trust me the pain does go away.!! Good luck!
2007-01-21 17:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by saucykittykatt 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cut ties
2007-01-21 16:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to deal with if you cut off all ties, but that emotionally sucks. If he or she is a good friend, then try to get over them. After all, they might seem like a perfect friend, but that doesn't mean they'd be perfect in a romantic relationship.
2007-01-21 17:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lalalie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's easier on your heart to cut all ties at first and give yourself time to heal and maybe revisit the relationship later as friends.
2007-01-21 16:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Destiny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get a knife, go to the persons house,.. are you getting all this?good! then make the knife go into that persons heart. When someone says you comited murder, Just say"no i didint. I stuck a knife in them." People will think your crazy and put you in a fluffy room. And this is the stupidest question i have ever heard.GET A LIFE!Thank you for your time. No wait i just wanted the points. Cya dork!
2007-01-21 17:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by sara jo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yerp cut all ties other wise it just makes life painful
2007-01-21 16:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i say you should tell them the truth and maybe they'll find they have fellings for you and things will turn out all right. i know that when it find some one likes my i start to like them.
2007-01-21 16:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by wean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋