If u were gay could u live a straight life marrying a woman having children as if u were straight?
2007-01-21 08:49:09 · 14 answers · asked by weirdlittlebritain 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmmm...ok, I gotta change the genders here or your question does't work for me. But I have to answer...NO, I did that already for too long.
All I managed to do was make myself miserable, upset my family and my son.
So, I took a really long look at my life and what I was doing to the people I loved and realized the only way to correct this was to live an honest life.
To stop living a self-imposed lie, to be happy and to inturn make those who love me happy.
I have been truly blessed AFTER I stopped living a lie. I have the unconditional love and support of my family, my close friends, I have a wonderful and happy son and a devoted and loyal partner for life.
2007-01-21 10:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know now 100 % that i'm a lesbian but up until i was 19 i was a very confused soul about my sexuality. It wasn't until i was 21 though that i actually admitted to myself that men just didn't and never would make me happy relationship wise. Which is why none of my hetro relationships ever worked. So i was actually living a lie for a long time even though deep down i knew something wasn't right. I do have 2 children,which is something i wanted and don't regret,(apart from the way they were concieved that is). They both are old enough to understand about my sexuality. They are very comfortable with it and they often,(when confronted by homophobic abuse and micky taking),say to these people that they are lucky because they have 2 mum's and not only am i proud of who i am but they are very proud of me. Some people may think i'm wrong because even though i had known deep down hetro wasn't me,i still went and had 2 children. All i can say is why shouldn't i have children just because i'm gay?? At the end of the day no matter what your sexuality is,shouldn't anyone be allowed to be a parent? Just because someone's gay doesn't mean they'll be a bad 1,does it!!!
2007-01-23 11:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by SHAKIRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well speaking as a straight person I couldnt live a lie and live with a woman and have sex with her so I guess it would be the same the other way around.
2007-01-21 16:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My philosophhy is to be happy this way u can extend happiness to others around u. u can never pretend to be happy u just have to be to be happy.
if u r honest with yourself then u can be honest with others .
u might be able to keep up an appearance for a while but not forever by which tym it would be too late to give yourself that joy of self-fulfilment. Making babies is easy but loving them and making them a home is where all the responsibility of pareniting is.
If u are gay be gay and never hide it. Just be honest with urself and u will gain respect for it also.
2007-01-22 04:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally not but I am straight but lots of people do seem to do it for image sake that is a awfull thing to do be proud of who you are gay or straight so be true to yourself !!!!!!!!!
2007-01-21 22:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by PARADOX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not think that I could do that. Why would you want to live a lie, God did not intend for us to be unhappy during our life. remember " To your heart be true!"
2007-01-21 17:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by chuzzlemegreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is advisable as eventually it would do things to you mentally and probably you would end up hurting so many people, especially if you had children.
2007-01-22 09:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No which is why I never married a woman.
2007-01-21 16:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my Dad managed it for some time, but he found himself having affairs with other men. I doubt that people can suppress something as strong as homosexuality for life.
2007-01-21 16:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but I ALMOST DID. However, when push came to shove and it got to the "almost got engaged," I had to be honest and broke it off, I just couldn't do it to her. I couldn't drag her into MY LIE. That's when I came out to myself. I couldn't hurt someone else to protect myself and that made me accept myself for who I was. Society had forced me to almost damage someone else and I was better than that and better than THEM.
So, no, I couldn't, but I can undetstand and forgive those who do.
2007-01-21 17:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋