A friend of mine is really into adult pornography, anyone got a idea to help him stop?
2007-01-21 08:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by cube_melon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
http://www.gotquestions.org/pornography-Bible.html
This site is what the Bible really says about pornography. I know it is wrong and it can be very addictive. People have lost jobs and families over it! It really can take over your life!
Please help your friend before it is too late.
Ask him to seek help, most churches have free counselling. If it has to come to it remove the Internet from his house all together. Help him realise it is not a hobby it is an addiction!!
2007-01-23 01:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-29 07:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about how you feel? If not, that is the first thing to do.
Depends where he's looking at the pornography as to whether you can do anything about it. If possible block any sites.
Sorry if that's not much help, more details would be useful.
Good luck.
2007-01-24 03:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. It's just a phase most boys go through. Your hormones tell you that you want it-but not how to get it. Tell he gets the real thing he will make do with the porn. Just relax, he's NOT a perv-yet!
2007-01-24 19:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless this affects your friendship why would you want to stop him?
Although you don't approve of it looking at porn doesn't necessary make him a bad person.
Tell him that you don't approve of it and that you don't wish to discuss porn with him, as the old saying goes - "What you don't know can't hurt you!"
2007-01-27 13:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disconnect your friendship. This person will bring grief into your life more likely than you getting him to give up his perversion. Apart from that, the best you can do for him is to pray and fast or give alms secretly.
2007-01-27 20:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by taxigringo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to get out more and find a girl friend or a hobby.
Well boys will be boys.
2007-01-28 01:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gaffa tape his hands to breeze blocks.
2007-01-25 00:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, Get him out of the house or where ever he is, and get him aroung with respectful girls.
2007-01-26 06:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can put a block on the computer.
2007-01-28 02:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋