2007-01-21 08:38:47 · 14 answers · asked by monica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like a question for the magic eight ball.
2007-01-21 08:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all depends on whether or not you two are willing to talk things over with each other and if you two really want to get back with each other. If you are truly willing to get it another shot I would try marriage counseling to see if some of your problems that led to the separation can be resolved. If you do not see things getting any better than a divorce and/or annulment could be in order and just move on.
2007-01-21 16:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tiah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a coincindence my stepmom and dad have been seperated for 4 years or more...but they are just friends...i def doubt they will get back together because my dad cheated on her with numerous women, and didn't even tell her that he fathered 7 children...but i would say it all depends why u broke up with him...but don't lose hope never know
2007-01-21 16:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by muslimah4life91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there always this chance. my husband and i were not together for almost ten years and in that time we both had two more kids ,we have one together but we are back together now its been over 4 years and its going great. Ill always miss the time we lost but we are making the very most of the time we have now. so if you both want it ,it could very well happen.
2007-01-21 18:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?? After 4 years, you should have been divorced and looking for someone else. You're separated for a reason, I presume - I don't think this reason's gonna magically go away. You're wasting your time, IMO; get on with your life.
2007-01-21 16:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been separated and not gone through divorce proceedings, and none of you are in a different relationship, and still have feeling for one another then it's possible. Talk to your husband about it and see what he thinks. Good Luck.
2007-01-21 16:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to say yes but after almost that amount of time waiting for an ex to reconsider it is proof that absence makes the heart grow cold not fonder.
2007-01-21 22:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, get a divorce and move on. If you haven't worked it out in 4 years, why would you want to?
2007-01-21 17:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you both want. 4 Years is a long time to separate...what's holding you two off from a divorce???
2007-01-21 16:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it. Hopefully neither one of you have had any other significant others since you are both still legally married and that would technically be adultery.
2007-01-21 17:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋