i got married june but got pregnat in april of the same year by my now husband (yet we lost the baby)we started dating in febuary but been off and on for 6 years. anyways recently i got an email from one of my husbands friends and found out that he was sleeping with his friends gf when i confronted my husband about it he still denied it then i showed him the email and he finally confessed but denied sleeping with her while i was pregnant yet she claims it was in may when they quit right before we got married. me and my husband have resolved most of the problems but i still cant trust him. Is there any way to trust him again when i feel everything he says is a lie? someone please help me i dont want to lose him
2007-01-21 08:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by crystal b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I bet Bert's answer really helped you.
Have you evaluated why you want to stay? You need that first.
Secondly, what can your husband do to make you trust him. It's his job to rebuild it. He may have to check in a little more. You have to evaluate his actions and determine if you think he's being truthful. Unless he gives you a reason from this point forward, then trust him. If you find your self not trusting him, you may have a decision to make.
2007-01-21 08:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Victor H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, it might have been a stupid mistake on his part, and he will shape up. There's no way to magically gain your trust back, all you can do is take it one day at a time. Whatever you do, get on birth control and don't get pregnant for a while - give yourself time to re-establish the relationship before you bring a child into the picture, it's a responsible thing to do.
2007-01-21 16:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your troubles and I hope it gets better for you. As far as this current dilemma. If you do not want to loose your husband then forgive and forget, go to counselling and work to make your marriage stronger. Trust takes years to build, in your case, rebuild, and it's up to both partners to make the marriage work.
Good Luck.
2007-01-21 16:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a therepist to try to work things out. if you dont want to,dump him hes not worth fighting for if you cant trust him
2007-01-21 17:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by brunettebabi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's human. ...and he made a mistake. If you really love him, get over it and move on.
2007-01-21 16:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by K.W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bible says to trust no man....put your trust in God, and He will help you....God bless ya
2007-01-21 16:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋