we want more and we know we have to make it more fun, if we are going to be together for 40 more years. what can we do, or id o to him that he may like but to scared to ask for. I give him bj at 4 times a week so please don t tell me that.
we both are alittle shy when it comes to this.
2007-01-21 08:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that the ideas about sitting down and talking about what you both want and have fantacies about is great! Although it may be somewhat uncomfortable at first, if you are both open and accepting, willing to possibly try it, you will be amazed at how freeing it feels!
Calling each other during the day, leave him sultry messages on his voicemail...tell him what you are going to do to him that night, or what you want him to do to you. I don't know if you have kids or not, but changing up where you have sex can also be exciting...kitchen table, laundry room, whatever and wherever the mood strikes.
When you walk past him, touch him, grab his butt, nibble his ear...let it build up...talk dirty in bed...
You said that you are both shy when it comes to this...that is a good common ground...you both get to put yourselves on the line and be willing to try something new....
Good luck!
2007-01-21 08:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by daisy31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try role play. You could like flirt and play a little like when out to eat. touch some but under table so others can't see. You could think about having another girl join you. You could think about another man joining you. Try going to bar and flirting some with the men. Then he comes in and hits on you. Yes i know he your husband but play like you 2 do not know each other. Maybe buy a really sexy outfit. If you would tell me if you try or like any of the idea i said
2007-01-21 08:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by sara a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 02:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a game to play with each other. I used to do home parties that sold items for keeping things interesting. a couple games we sold were Romance Roulette, Carnal Cards, and Hump! They are all fun games that bring a little twist to the ho hum.
2007-01-21 08:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a sex shop and stock up on some fresh new toys. Maybe get a wig and role play. Better yet he'll be really happy to find you using new toys when he comes home....
2007-01-21 09:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by ~chopperwon~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a stripclub, lots of fun!!!! You get to fulfill the fantasy of being with beautiful women together! My husband and I have been married for 12 years, and it's worked for us. Toys, books and movies are great too!
2007-01-21 08:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by some1invegas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a drink so you dont feel so embarrassed and tell him what you would like him to try on you. Believe me he will be happy for you to tell him. You can also get a book on karma sutra positions you can try a new one each night and you may find something that excites you.
2007-01-21 08:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys always make it more interesting also try adding foods and drinks!!!
2007-01-21 08:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be created with him and explor new thing and you go to see you sex live go to change
2007-01-21 09:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by sarden17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try role playing... find what turns him on... think about your own fanasty ans tell him... them make that fanasty come true
2007-01-21 08:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by whitefire14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋