Im 18 and so is my boyfriend. He has big blue eyes and blond hair and one of my girldriends ( a girl who is a friend) says that most guys with blond hair and blue eyes are gay. He is really charming, and gentleman he always opens the door for me, and offers to carry my stuff. So im little suspicous because st8 guys are usually jerks. And he also likes to watch passions with me, and loves going to the movies and last week he made a picnic on the beach for me. Is this gay behavior?? And something really get me suspicous like when rented I am Sam, and Step Mother he cried. So I don't know. IS HE GAY????
2007-01-21 08:01:16 · 45 answers · asked by goldwinner 1 in Sports ➔ Wrestling
what a moron. Your friend needs an education.
2007-01-21 08:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
No offence love, but if you believe your **** of a friend's theory that boys with blue eues and blond hair are gay then you really are stupid. Please dont believe that side of it. It doesnt matter at all that he cried at a film, boys cry all the time but we dont tell anyone; if he cried in front of u then it means he feels comfortable with u and that he can be himself in front of you. He obviously cares about you so much since he does all these things eg picnics, opens doors etc. It means he's a well-brought up gentleman, not gay. Dont throw such a good relationship away because some stupid thing a mate has said has made you paranoid, please. To me, from what you said, he DOES NOT sound gay at all. Honest.
2007-01-22 05:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by KaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no he is not.He is a sensiive,caring guy who is charming.I'm sorry your friend is not right..How on earth all straight guys be jerks huh?Maybe Straight guys that u know are jerks. So its not ur fault!But There are many straight guys who arent jerks.
Then the next thing is he is so caring and respects u alot.He loves you and he is a real man who knows how to respect a woman and please her.He is a good male partner.
Next thing is his looks have simply nothing to do with his sexuality.Blond hair,blue eyes so what?Those are due to his genetics.There's nothing to deal with sexuality.If he acts gay,behaves gay when he sees good looking guys and simply if he gets attracted to same sex sexually then he could be gay.
Watching passions doesnt mean he is gay.So chill out!U r a lucky girl to have a charming guy who has great qualities to go with his looks which is not common with most of guys.Be Happy!
2007-01-21 22:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by SOAD_ROX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you are truly going to believe that being blonde with blue eyes makes you gay, you are ridiculous, maybe you should try just asking him honestly. There are plenty of guys out there who are considerate of women and not all straight guys are jerks. I have been with my boyfriend for over 5years and he still amazes me with things like that. Also, my 49 year old dad who has been married to my mother for over 25years cries at movies and there has never been a question in my mind if he is gay. If you are truly considering the idea that your boyfriend is gay, just because he is a sweet guy and has blonde hair and blue eyes, you dont deserve him.
2007-01-21 08:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think so but not all str8 guys are jerks.some guys are really charming and if u find that dont let them go. I dont kno about the movies, passions, and crying thing but he might be the soft type of guy, dont get me wrong u also need them strong 2. ur bf might act gay but isnt just remember not everyone is the same . u should try talking 2 him also
Plus I love Passions
2007-01-21 08:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by *Fabulous* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All human beings are homosexual to some extent. It's simply a matter of where on the spectrum between total homosexuality and total heterosexuality a given person falls.
With that in mind, I've had boyfriends with the same physical appearance who have done the same sorts of things as the guy you described, and they were most definitely not gay. It sounds to me like your friend is extremely jealous that you seem to have found a wonderful person, and so is channeling her anger into breaking the two of you up. I'd ignore her.
2007-01-21 08:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if YOU don't know, how the heck are WE supposed to know??!!
And by the way, I have blond hair and blue eyes, I've been married now for 3 years, had many a girlfriend, plenty of guys hit on me, even a couple of guys try to kiss me, and I'm not gay.
He's probably just sensitive. Are his parents really well off and give him way too much attention? I've noticed that a lot of guys who have it too cushy become way too sensitive.
2007-01-21 08:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Hans B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooo...
i he does all those nice things to a girl he is so NOT gay!! i mean yeah if he did those things to a boy MAYBE, but he is not. and it doesn't matter how someone looks... if he has blonde hair and blue eyes it's not like he's gay.. sorry for the rude answer, but it think what you're saying has no sense.. well do whatever you want
2007-01-21 08:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds really nice. Regarding the gay question I'd go with Cher one this one. The answer is in his kiss. Does he seem reticent on a physical level? Is he comfortable physically with male friends?
2007-01-21 08:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by birdie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not gay. You are very lucky to find a nice ROMANTIC sensitive guy. Your girlfriend is probably jealous. He opens the door for you because he is a gentlemen.
2007-01-21 08:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by CR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he isn't gay.
Your friend doesn't know what she is talking about, not all sensitive guys, with prince charming looks have to be gay!
I like guys that don't hide there feelings, if your close enough to your boyfriend, discuss this with him yourself, that will clear it up somewhat!
2007-01-21 08:05:31 · answer #11 · answered by Fiona M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋