Im 18 and so is my boyfriend. He has big blue eyes and blond hair and one of my girldriends ( a girl who is a friend) says that most guys with blond hair and blue eyes are gay. He is really charming, and gentleman he always opens the door for me, and offers to carry my stuff. So im little suspicous because st8 guys are usually jerks. And he also likes to watch passions with me, and loves going to the movies and last week he made a picnic on the beach for me. Is this gay behavior?? And something really get me suspicous like when rented I am Sam, and Step Mother he cried. So I don't know. IS HE GAY????
2007-01-21 08:00:59 · 18 answers · asked by goldwinner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay... let me get this right... your guy is sensitive, caring and respectful... so you assume he is gay?? WOW!
Maybe he is just a nice guy that likes you and doesn't enjoy treating girls like crap... was he by any chance raised by a single mother or did he grow up with sisters? That could have something to do with his "unusual" behavior.
2007-01-21 08:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by dai_nite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, the way you place it, he does sound somewhat on the gay facet. supply it somewhat greater time and if he does greater female issues with then you definitely sit down him down and ask him flat out with out being rude or disrespectful. you do no longer desire to wreck his thoughts, so the terrific element to do is to purely ask him on your man or woman candy way. Now don't be bowled over if he gets indignant before everything, the 1st reaction is in many situations the splendid one. merely tell him which you're no longer attempting to wreck his thoughts, you merely desire to appreciate the place you adult males stand in relationship clever. and then in case you experience like the relationship isn't getting from now on powerful, propose friendship. you won't be able to go incorrect with friendship, and there is not any longer something like having a gay guy as a pal. they in many situations make the bestest acquaintances. Oh yea, and merely because of the fact a gay consistent with danger a male cheerleader, that truly would not make him gay. attempt to think of in case you notice yet another male cheerleader that maybe he did no longer make the soccer group. i'm hoping each and everything works out for you. God Bless
2016-11-26 00:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl how u doing i hope your good anyways he ain't gay f*** what people say u really think if his gay he will be with u i don't think SO your friends are just hating because u got some one good that loves u not assholes like them SO girl u better take care of this guy don't listen to people because people will talk mess about your man if he was a assholes or not , no matter what people are always going to talk **** so f*** them and his not gay
2007-01-22 10:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He's MetroSexual. Meaning he likes girls and everything about them. So what he enjoys chick flicks. If you are so worried just start doing things that a boyish together. Go hit a few balls at a batting cage. If he is into you then forget what everyone else says. I would keep him around.
2007-01-21 08:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is actually a nice person, who is sensitive and caring and a gentleman. Believe it or not, I think there is the rare animal out there known as a nice straight guy. He's a keeper!
2007-01-21 10:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you serious?? i feel sorry 4 this guy to have a girlfriend like you ... "most guys w/ blond hair & blue eyes are gay"??? this is the STUPIDEST thing i have ever heard besides the girl who wanted to know if she swallowed could she get pregnant. you should do this guy a favor and dump him so he can find a girl who can appreciate him..
2007-01-21 09:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by ♠ JƏSSƏ'S GiRL ♠ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're a girl than he's not gay:) Maybe he's just too sensitive or something, didn't you watch movie beddazled when they were on the beach?:)
2007-01-21 08:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rufio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have shared doesn't mean he is gay...maybe he was taught to be a gentleman and maybe he was around emotional family members. Until you have some proof then don't worry about it.
2007-01-21 08:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by My_ina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blue eyes and blond hair does not make you gay but if he is 18 and not wanting sex from you he is gay
2007-01-21 08:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not gay. Sensitive and cute maybe, but not gay. Don'y worry. You're just tense cause you're friend said that. Just chillax!:-)
2007-01-21 08:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋