They say it is against Islam to cleanse yourself in any way. How can I convert her to Christianity?
2007-01-21 07:57:45 · 27 answers · asked by atomicseptic 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Muslims might go after he if she tries to convert. At least i have heard about that before. They could stone her. Leave her be.
2007-01-21 08:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Which end are you referring to? If it's the top end they might notice, but if it's the bottom end...yeah...I can just see it now : " Daughter, I must look to see if you have cleansed yourself or not" ! No, I don't think her parents will be asking to see her bush any day soon, so I believe it's fairly safe for her to go for a Brazilian ( wax I mean lol ) without fear of being disowned or stoned to death ! If she's allowed to have a Christian boyfriend, then I can't see a shaved bush being too much of a problem matey !
Don't bother trying to convert her to Christianity, then you'll both end up being stoned to death !
Oh well, it's been fun.......
2007-01-21 16:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Paris69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
meet her in the middle at agnosticism. preach to her about common sense, the failings of the bible as well as the Koran.
The main driving inspiration to how the bible has turned out and the entire production of the Koran were calls in the face of conflict. Crusades and so forth. Islam was established by an intellectual theologian that saw the need for a faith based system to foster society into a tangible mentality and as an antithesis to Catholicism during the time of its implementation.
agree to fear of God and the ten commandments because that's really all you need to be enlightened.
I think you should compromise your faith and do some backtracking. The purpose I say this is not to beat up on you or make jabs at Christianity, but because you will understand the thing that she must do inside herself.
Honestly, if you are not willing to give up on your view, do not be such an egotist to think you can will her to give up on hers. As it is, this is something Christians are not supposed to do...convincing.
I say drop your own faith and lead by example or let her go completely. Don't make a game of it, be realistic about this.
Good luck.
edit: I highly disagree about removing her from her parents also undermining her honesty. There are many things to consider and take into account including her community. Her pressures into her views come from her family and society. She is just fine this way unadulterated. Now that you are a new influence in her life, you still must get to know her well and establish a very deep trust over time. Do not be so prying just because you want a shaved beaver. You ask almost rediculously way too much. If you honestly care about this person you will not capitulate her to feel torn by dramatic decisions just to prove her loyalty.
There are many things in this world we need to take on faith including the word of our partner. If the partner just doesnt want to and is lying about it that is another issue entirely which would point to a basic lack of intimacy and consideration of the dynamics in her life and yours and how they might mingle while you are charging straight ahead for the plunge as any healthy and unthinking male might do...maybe you should slow things way down in the relationship and meditate on what truly defines the difference between a 'man' and a beast.
2007-01-21 16:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question strikes me as weird for 2 reasons.
1) Muslims are not allowed to date. And even if her parents are going against Islamic teachings and letting their daughter date, they wouldn't let her date a Christan, and would not let her lose her virginity before marriage (HUGE NO-NO, no matter how modernized/secular you are).
2) Cleanliness is a huge important part of Islam. We have to perform ablution to cleanse ourselves before we pray 5 times a day. And in Islam it clearly states that men and women after reaching the age of puberty should cleanse themselves by clipping or shaving their underarms and private areas maximum every 40 days. So it is an integral part of Islam that you keep yourself clean.
2007-01-21 19:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lulu 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How could her parents see, or know about her shaving or not anyway. Like they have to do the inspecting her, every so often.
I believe I heard that you can convert to Islam from any the other belief. However, you can’t convert yourself to Christianity. Just like, you can’t lie to God. God knows everything. The only way anyone could be a Christian is having faith, believe in Jesus, and follow Him. Obey His word. You can’t save her, or convince her to get save. She has to do it on her own.
John 3:16 (New International Version)
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
2007-01-21 16:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first Islam is the religion of cleanse,2nd its not against Islam to shave but its against Islam to date or have an affair before marriage,and its forbidden for a Muslim women to marry christian men.
There is no way you can convert her to Christianity
However I can't believe you,it doesn't sound logic to me,How the hell her parents allow her to date and not to shave?!!!!
2007-01-21 16:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Is this bush on her face or between her legs?
If the bush is on her face, I recommend edge gel followed by an a skin bracer after shave.
If the big bush is between her legs, I suggest a trimmer available in most gardening stores.
Bringing religion into this matter is a big mistake. Stay away from it. Don't ask Don't tell.
2007-01-21 16:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by James 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that you are serious - but just to play along....
if she shaves her bush - who is gonna know besides her? Clean the razor get rid of the evidence and try not to scratch in front of the parents and they only ones that will know is me you and her - the only people getting to sneak a peak at it.
2007-01-21 16:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its against her religious beliefs don't push the subject. It may not seem like a big thing to you, but its something she's based her whole life on.
2007-01-21 16:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Knowledge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, some times you just have to keep the pimp hand strong. Lay down the law and tell her to shave that nasty snatch. ROFL! good question though.
2007-01-21 16:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Chile_H_Pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋