Should I share?

Question

Hubby and me are having an issue, so I thought I would let you guys solve it. If a man and wife share everything is there any issue when I tell hubby that I just like having my whole pillow to sleep on. He thinks its stingy, I think, I share everything with everyone else can't I have one thing just for me without a complaint. Anyone had this silly issue before. How did you get your spouse to compromise.

Answer 1

I'd say, cuddle with me all you want, but leave me my pillow please!! Some things are meant to be hogged...ice cream is in this category too.

Answer 2

I would go buy 6 pillows and put them all on the bed. Then he can have 3 and you would be sharing "half" of your pillows with him, lol! If your bed is too small and he needs more room, then it might be time to invest in a bigger bed. 3 pillows should be enough for any man, he does not need to be getting all up on you like that... seems kinda territorial and controlling in a weird way to me...
Good luck with that!- dd

Answer 3

Hi, you should be able to at least have your "own" pillow. But if it's just that he really likes sharing the pillow with you and you don't have enough room, maybe you could buy a big pillow... like one of those king sized ones. They're pretty big. Otherwise maybe a body pillow would be big enough. :)

Answer 4

I am the same way, lol. But I have my own pillow. Even though you are one in marriage you are still you own person, as is he. It'll get old quick. Does he share his nail gun (or what ever he has IE hobbies) with you? Does he share all of the chores? Tell him that he needs to chill that it's ok, you aren't going to leave him just because you want you own pillow, sheesh. lol Good luck hun.

Answer 5

thats kind of odd me and my husband never fought about sharing things we just do, we also each have 2 pillows for ourselves lol. just give him his own pillow? i think it might help, but really u guys shudnt fight about these small things.