My wife after 10 years of marriage and 12 years together said she needed a break. No warning or signs that this was coming. I was shocked to hear she was unhappy with me. I tried counseling but she was ambivolent to participating. I apologized frequently, sent flowers, doing much more than I had done before. I did not remark when she wanted to go out, stayed out late and spent large amounts of money. I was devistated but figured she just needed time to herself.
Her attitude towards me did not improve, floods of negative criticism poured out in the few counseling apts she attended. It was as if she was determined to end things and she grew angrier towards me each day that passed.
After a year of separation I discovered she was having an affair with her boss. To add insult to injury, she wrote several checks in my name, got me sent to collections and got herself a boob job. I always get asked what I did to cause the marriage to end and it's assumed she must be raising the kids. y?
2007-01-21
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