seems like 90% of lesbians are either butch or fem, it's hard to find anything in the middle which is the type i'm into.
2007-01-21 07:37:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'm not sure androgynous is my type either i kinda like girls who have both boyish and feminine qualities, is that anrogynous lol what is that? aggressive fem? i don't know
2007-01-21 07:56:38 · update #1
I'm bisexual, and I've never identified as butch or as femme, really. In order to clue people into what I'm like, I usually say 'low, low-maintenance femme', because I'm not all that girly, but definitely not butch. Sometimes I wear dresses and skirts and makeup, but very rarely, my hair is up in a ponytail, and I just kick back. I guess I'd say 'normal-looking', even though that seems to imply uber-femmes and handsome butches aren't normal, which they are.
Don't worry, your girl is out there!
2007-01-21 08:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a waste of time and sanity to try to figure out exactly every lesbian label and correctly label each individual. I'm kinda more butch though myself.
2007-01-21 16:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ther are sum and they are called AGRESSIVE FEMS they are both boyish and yet still closely intact with theri femenine side. theres nothing wrong with that. u get the best of both the femenine woman that knows exactly how to handle your feeligns, adn still the aggresiveness of a stud that can hold theri own and take care of business.
2007-01-21 09:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulpersona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few friends who are lesbians and they're not really femme or butch.
2007-01-21 08:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by drummerofaband 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i individually like ladies with astounding long hair and that i think of ladies that placed on outfits and skirts are eye-catching yet I additionally like ladies who act like tomboys. So i assume a fem who acts like a tomboy.
2016-10-31 22:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend Lisa is a lesbian and isn't butch or fem.
2007-01-21 07:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there are lots of them. You just have to know where to look I s'pose. The term is androgynous.
2007-01-21 07:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Greske 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not butch or feme but leaning more on the butch side.
2007-01-21 08:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im bi and im not butch or fem
2007-01-21 13:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think every lesbian tries to fit into a catagory. they just try to be themselves.. there is more to a person than looks or fashion that they wear..
2007-01-21 07:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋