has anyone done this?

Question

yesterday at 9am i knocked on a hotel bedroom door, a guy that i met online and have been texting and calling was waiting for me in bed. We kissed I undressed and got in bed with him, we made love twice, showered then went downstairs for breakfast. Later we went for a drive in his car, we are both married and over 50. Then I went home and cooked tea for my husband as if nothing had hapened. I have never done this before, and till yesterday had only ever made love with him. Later we went to bed and me and my husband made love.

Answer 1

no ive never done it but ive thought it every time my husband farts doesnt wash for 2 days, sits on his backside.dangerous game to play be careful.

Answer 2

WOW!! You English Women are a wild lot eh ?? (yoohoo England here I am !!) ;-)) ;-))

Ok, everyone’s entitled to 1 mistake and you just used yours up. Your ego should be satisfied, you're still desirable, still got it going for you, the thrill of anonymous wild sex should be satisfied, and what ever emotional needs you had were filled. Hopefully all those “needs” were satisfied.

Unlike most posters,, “whore, hussy, skank,, yadda, yadda, yadda,” I Did notice you are over 50 years old and presumably have been married “forever”. Right?? So, it’s understandable wanting that “last grasp at the youth ring”. Doesn’t make it right of course, but Understandable. Now if you do this behavior frequently….. that’s another matter.

Lot of younger posters on here,, who believe their “looks, self-esteem, ego, hottiness, etc…” will last forever. Armed with that believe they think they will get married, live their life, and never have any of the emotions described. Uh,,, rude shock coming,,, they will have them at some point in their lives. A fantasy is not limited to just youngsters.

Answer 3

That´s horrible! No I have never done this and never will. I think that when you end up cheating is for a reason, your husband does not desrve this.Perhaps if he doesnt satisfy you, you should tell him, tell him how you want it done.That wasn´t making love, that was SEX by the way. Making love(even when its the same act) has a different meaning. You just met the guy, it was lust, not love and commitment. Wow, I cant imagine my granpa or grandma doing this to each other, after all those years of marriage.

Answer 4

are you kidding-has anyone done this? its called adultery,and has been going on as long as people have been getting married. im not going to get into any moral issues,as that was not the nature of your question. besides ,it sounds like you are rather proud of what you did,and hope for some kind of envious response.,or maybe that is way off base, and you are guilt-ridden, and need to confess, or perhaps validation. whatever, yes im absolutely sure that untold millions have done what you did. at your age, and beyond. p.s.- you dont sound like a 50 year old woman, but more like a teenage girl. and- most people 'brew' tea,they dont 'cook' it . best wishes ,50 year old 'happy girl'

Answer 5

What do you want ....a medal? So you were unfaithful - do you want us to say that it is ok? No doubt lots of people have done similar - doesnt make it ok does it? You deceived your husband. How would you feel if he had done all that, and then calmly come back and you had cooked tea as normal without knowing. And what about the other guy's wife?

Answer 6

well, I'm not married but Ive been with my boyf for 6 yrs. I feel as though there must be something missing in your marriage for you to go as far as you did, I'm sorry if I'm telling you something you already know, but if its not going to happen again then i would treat it as a life lesson, lesson now learned. If on the other hand it is going to happen again then i would tell your husband that you have met someone, if your thinking 'i cant do that' then you've answered your own question. Sorry to go on bit no i ha vent done it and dont think i would as its been done to me, and its the worsed feeling in the world. tc and gl

Answer 7

I think this would fall under the heading of "risky sexual behavior". First you kissed him (exchanged saliva), then you made love, (exchanged bodily fluids). Sounds exciting until you get diagnosed with herpes, Aids, or something else along these lines. If he'll do it with you, I bet he'll do it with anyone else. Same goes for you. Sounds like two selfish people who needed each other crossed paths at just the right time. Let's just hope their are not innocent people who will be hurt.

Answer 8

there must be some sort of problem in your marriage if this is the type of life you want you should look at how things are at home imagine how you would feel if the shoe were on the other foot you have a long time to live with your regrets and it will eat you up inside

Answer 9

You should question your relationship with your husband. Do you still love him?, or are you still with him because its what you are used too? Personnally i do not agree with infidelity and i would talk to my husband about this and the questions raised. Maybe the marrage is over, maybe it can be saved, but going behind his back shows you have little respect for your relationship with him.
Only you know what to do.Good luck. |I hope things work out for you.

Answer 10

That's disgusting. If they still had the thumbs down option for questions, you'd have about 20 by now. You owe your husband an explanation & an apology.

Answer 11

You sound as if you are bragging when in reality you should be ashamed of yourself at your age. I took my marriage vows seriously and would never in a million years sleep with anyone but my husband. I feel for your husband, you are being very dishonest with him and you should confess. Let him decide if he still wants a ho for a wife.