dreaming of my ex?

Question

my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. and last night i had two dreams about her. the first one was about me meeting her new boyfriend which made me upset and i woke up. then the next one was about us getting back together. and the werid thing is that i havent talk to her in a month. is this a sign or not

Answer 1

This dream tells me this woman was a driving force in your life. It also tells me that you would drop everthing and anyone if she were to show up unannounced. You have not totally let go of her and you gave no indication as to wether or not she has tried to contact you in the last three months, if not let her go. Get out there and start enjoying life again!!! Try doing things that you used to enjoy and you never know you just might find someone to enjoy life with again. Good luck an Goddess Bless.

Answer 2

usually a dream about an ex means that you are lonely. It doesn't mean that you are really thinking about going back to your ex. If you go back, you probably will encounter the same problems that broke you guys up. If you broke up over something that was really silly, because of pride (not meaning cheating) because if anyone cheats on you, they are not worthy of you and a second chance with you. If it was silly, perhaps you can arrange to meet and have a discussion to see if things can be resolved. If you are lonely, busy yourself with a project, a new book, new activities, join a community volunteer service, to meet new people and fill your time up so you will be too tired to think about what or who you don't have. I kept thinking about an ex, and I knew I was going to get married soon. So I arranged to meet my ex, and tell my ex, all that I was still feeling, and I told my ex what really made me want to break up, and I was a different reason, then what I told my ex, when we actually break up. You need closure. I said I will not plan to see or talk to the ex from this point on. I still think about my ex, but do not have any intentions of seeing the ex, but know that I married the right person, and with time, I don't think about what I used to have with my ex, whenever I am angry with my life partner, because I know the things that were unresolvable with my ex, when we were going out, would have forever remained unresolved till this day, if we were married.

Answer 3

I personally think that you still have feelings for her. The reason for this is because you were actually upset about the dream of her meeting her new boyfriend. And you also had a dream that you guys are starting to go out again. So yes, I have a feeling that there is a sign that you're falling in love again.

I hope this helps :)

Answer 4

Well, although dreams come in many ways,shapes and forms...there really isnt always a so-called guide book for them or to interpret them. A lot of dreams are far out there and are purely imaginative. Others can be fantasies, fears, etc. But another big thing that has been proven somewhat is that when we dream about someone or a certain situation (like an ex)...its purely our brains trying to deal with it and process it. I know from experience, I would never dream about the person till we werent together anymore...and it wasnt like i wanted to be with them...it was my brain dealing with the situation. Hope this helps ease your mind.

Answer 5

It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex-girlfriend until you "let go" of her on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.

Answer 6

Yeah, it's a sign that you aren't finished processing the experience yet. If you aren't in a relationship now, and there's nobody new keying you into the memories via new romantic experiences, then I'll bet you 1000 bucks you still think about her too much.

I always think of dreams as the brain's defrag mode where it sorts day-to-day thoughts, impressions, emotions, etc and associates them with past experiences and such.

So if you are dreaming about her, you are either thinking about her or the relationship or you are involved in a new one or thinking about having a new one.

Answer 7

it is a sign, but what sign it is I don't really know. You don't say how you felt about the break-up but I'm guessing that you wern't too happy about it as you're asking if your dream was a sign. I'm assuming that you would like it to be a good sign. I think you're just missing her & the dream of her new b/f is one of your fears & the dream of being back with her is a desire/hope you have.

Answer 8

I have a friend who dreamed about her ex boyfriend for about a week, and their anniversary just so happened to be nearby. Is it possible that a first kiss, anniversary, birthday or something like that is coming up, because if so, you could just have her on your mind. It may not be that you still have feelings for her (though don't completely drop that thought...) but you could just be thinking of good times, or something that would have happened right about now with her.

Answer 9

Cannot relate to your problem and can only suggest seeng a psychiatrist if you are one of the meager few who can afford such help. Otherwise get some welfare social worker to hold your hand while you mourn the loss of your beloved mate. Must be tough, very touch to prompt you put it out here. Well, love and peace brother and may you find the spiritual strength people require during such times. God bless (please click on best answer button before you leave this site).

Answer 10

I have dreams about ex's that I haven't seen or talked to in over 10 years. I wouldn't say that it's a sign.