if you were happily married but sexually attracted to another woman who wanted you would u have a 1 time thing with her if u knew ur wife would NEVER find out and i know what ur gonna say "the wife always finds out" but lets just say u would be 100% positive she wouldnt find out..Would u do this yes or no
2007-01-21 07:15:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i ask the married men not the married women
2007-01-21 07:20:03 · update #1
ask my wife.lol i am the wife and no this isnt about me and my husband just wondering what other married men would do in this situation..i have ask hubby same question and he says NO WAY
2007-01-21 07:31:58 · update #2
Honestly, if a man is happily married as i am, he should never have any relations with another woman. Men like to look at attractive women just like women like to look at attractive men but it should never go any further than that, looking. When you really love someone you only want to be with that person.
2007-01-21 07:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Went to a dance with my wife and her friend and her
friend told me while I had a dance with her how she was
attracted to me and how she wished she had a man like
me and well you know how some women talk to married
men, but it was not a turn on to me as I was with my wife
and because I love my wife and respect her I told her
friend that she was wasting her time as I am already taken
and that she knew that and that I don't mess around on
my wife, Needless to say she left me on the dance floor
and I returned to my seat where my wife was sitting.
Later I told my wife what had happened so that her friend
could not make up a story without my wife knowing ahead
of time what took place. So a 1 time thing would never
take place in answer to your question. In 20yrs I still
continue to show my wife that she is the only one for me.
2007-01-21 21:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be the only honest one here. Yes, I would. I see so many of the folks responding, no, I love my wife too much, but the statistics tell you otherwise. 50-60% of men have cheated on their spouses. Are only the 50% that haven't, responding to your question? Also, if a man lusts after a woman, he has already committed adultery in his heart.
2007-01-21 15:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Look at this way, would you want your wife to do that to you even if you would never find out ? It's not about the act, but the hurt that it would inflict and the loss of trust that it would cause. Aside from all that you are an adult so do what you want.
2007-01-21 15:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by truckerman96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if the wife doesn't find out-- he'd still be a lying cheater who had to look in the mirror every day and live with himself. Unless he has no personal morals and standards, and in that case- just leave the wife anyway- she doesn't deserve him. LOL
2007-01-21 15:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant answer that until a man is put into that situation. Alot will say NO , NEVER.
But, if a women is horny and wants you. Good luck saying no when the lower brain takes over and the upper brain is totally shut off.
2007-01-21 15:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I take my marriage vowels seriously and all men and women should to.Cheating is cheating no matter if the spouse finds out or not so definatley no.
2007-01-21 15:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Maybe you should ask your wife the same question and see what she says.
2007-01-21 15:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by blcria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not married, but i'll answer anyway.
and i think this is true for all men. depends on the situation at home. if im not getting enough, i'll get it somewhere else. simple.
and by the way, i decide whats enough for me. she doesnt. if she dont like it, she ca step.
thats the beauty of being single
2007-01-21 15:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by phenobulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll live with the guilt no matter if you're a married man or woman. Just don't do it.
2007-01-21 15:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋