am tring to get a beatifull suceeful woman but am not as sucesfull as she
2007-01-21 07:08:38 · 24 answers · asked by kiky m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a 38 year old women I can give you my answer. Trustworthy, honest, and hardworking. Money not an issue. Material things not an issue either as others here have suggested. I would live in a shack with no running water with the right guy.
2007-01-21 09:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by pat1268 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing is to find out what this beautiful, successful,37+ woman wants. The only way to find out is to ask her. This is one of the most sexiest things that a man can ask a woman(mature) anyway. What do you want out of life? What are your goals? What are your interests. You know why the courting phase is so fun because you two are getting to know each other. You are exploring what life can be, what are the possibilities. Start talking to her. Share with her thee things that you want to accomplish. The other reason that the getting to know you phase is so fun is that you are invited into another person's dreams, plans, purpose and the energy is so powerful. Don't sit down and have a long conversation about this yet. Go out and do something together and ask one question at a time. You are not trying to get her but you are trying to share your life with her. There is a difference.
2007-01-26 02:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope a decent, loving person and personal happiness. Success is a relative term - she could be successful in her job but terrible in her personal relationships.
Too many people judge success to mean monetary success - life is about much more than that.
And what do you mean by 'trying to get'? Is she merely an object to you? Do you just want to bed her or do you want a relationship with this person? You need to answer these questions to yourself.
If you plan to spend a long time with this lady ask yourself this - will she still be beautiful when the 'beauty' fades?
2007-01-21 08:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think most women are looking for a kind, honest, hardworking and sincere man who will treat them well. Perhaps that is old fashioned but I think deep down it's true. What do you think defines a beautiful successful woman - surely beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and why should you not be as successful as her, if you find someone who is on your level and who genuinely likes you then you would both be successful - in finding love, at least! :-) And don't be so negative about yourself and whether you are successful - in the right woman's eyes, you will be both beautiful and successful - you just need to be a genuine person and you'll find the right person for you in time.
2007-01-21 07:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Clazza 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think the biggest thing is no immature nonsense. you must be doing something with yourself. get your credit right, work hard and most of all be honest and skip all the young guy b.s. the fastest way to lose a mature woman is to not being consistent, not being honest, and not have goals that you are actively working on achieving(current job, no other women, no internet porn and decent 2 great credit). good luck! i'm 33 with a 41 y/o beautiful & successful woman since 2001. i had to learn what i've told you the hard way. thank god she has been willing to give me another chance. i listen and learn everything i can from her. she didn't become successful by accident.
2007-01-21 07:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lab 7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone with their own private jet - by the age of 37 women are fed up with wasters with nothing to offer except false promises. If she is beautiful and successful she probably has may offers you need to make sure you can offer more then the others to make her life better more fulfilled etc etc
2007-01-24 02:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you for who you are, the finances may not be as important to her, since she is already financially secure, However, if she does care about being with a partner that can contribute to her life style, then she won't give you a chance from the get go. In my experience, successful woman would want to be with someone on their level or higher.
2007-01-21 07:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi kiki m
I am a guy so think I will leave this one for all the f thirty somethinks out there to answer & I will pop back later to read some of your reply's with interest.
safe bets;.. money, trustworthy, stability, honesty, caring, gsoh
take care & goodluck
2007-01-25 12:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Successuful in what? Business? Life? Your question if rather vague. However, many women know what they want. They want to be loved and cared for. They want to laugh and enjoy life. How you measure success in life is not how much money you have in the bank but how you embrace life. If this is how the woman yu are chasing measures success than maybe she truely is not the one for you. You however, will never know unless you take the plunge and put yourself out there and make yourself and your intentions known to her. If she laughs at you, it will sting but than at least you will know.
2007-01-21 07:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. Take a chance. I have had relationships where I was more successful and ones where they were...it all depends on the heart. Good luck.
2007-01-21 07:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by mixedupwife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋