I've been with the same guy for like seven months. He's awsome but he seems to be kind of strange and any girl whose dated him has said so but i didn't see anything really wrong until last week when he was totally checking out this other guy. Is he gay? What should I do?
2007-01-21 06:53:12 · 16 answers · asked by Maddy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, I think you should stop worrying what other people think. Maybe you're just paranoid because of what these other girls have said. Think about it - maybe they're just jealous cos you have this guy now! What is weird about him? It may well be he liked the other guy's haircut, or thought he had the same t-shirt as him or something. I think you're jumping to conclusions. If anything happens to make you more suspicious, talk to your guy, as it's obviously bothering you. But if he's not gay, then he'll be insulted that you don't trust him. So believe in him and trust that if he was gay, he wouldn't be going out with you!!! Don't worry ;)
2007-01-21 07:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by cheesemonkeymonkeycheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thought that he looked familiar... I do that sometimes. Sometimes gay guys as teenagers (or even well into adulthood) have a hard time dealing with the fact that they are gay and may date girls/women for a while. I knew a guy that all through high school dated girls.. usually ugly ones LOL but finally in senior year he came out. It was a relief. Everyone else had already figured it out, but we were so happy that he was finally coming to terms with it. Anything is possible.
2007-01-21 07:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Holy Macaroni! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who can truly answer that question for you is him. Best way to approach a situation like that is tell him what you *saw* and let him explain it. There could be a perfectly good explanation for it. Someone said in an earlier answer to get an HIV test... ::rolls eyes:: I would hope that it would eventually come clear that AIDS is not the *gay disease*. You should get tested after every partner you sleep with... gay, straight or purple. So don't worry. ::shrugs:: If he acts all flighty with you when you approach him on it... that might be enough of an answer right there.
2007-01-21 07:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Greske 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it with you straight women, you always have to try to find a flaw? If I weren't already gay, your behavior would make a strong arguement for switching!
If a man looks at another guy, he's gay. If he looks at a woman, he's cheating on you. Nobody is going to spend 24 hours a day staring at your mug. Get over yourself.
If you are so f*cking insecure, then do the world a favor and exit the dating pool ASAP. Try some counseling instead. Or maybe get yourself a vibrator and be with yourself. Oh, but if you shake hands with someone, then you would be cheating on yourself...
2007-01-21 07:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by ramman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys "size each other up", being competitive and all that. It's different than "checking them out". However, keep your eyes and ears open, just in case.
2007-01-21 06:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just socially awkward. He might have been looking at the guy because he was jealous of him.
2007-01-21 07:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's gay...any man whose eyes even briefly touch another man is gay.
2007-01-21 06:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the only way to find out is ask him. but be careful, he could get angry.
2007-01-21 07:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Iris 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was admiring his clothes or haircut
2007-01-21 06:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, you should try and approach him.
he could just be bi. =/
2007-01-21 06:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ambiguous-Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋