ok first of all we have a daughter and she is 2 yrs. old she left me a month and a week ago she asked for time..i said it was fine, but i really havent given her the time and she thinks thats it 1month and she will never come back. Well myspace she met her first kiss again and they wanted to see each other: i had found out thru trash...She tells me she likes him, but he doesnt know that...he's being there for her as a friend. and not to mention this had happened before where she was confused alot earlier in the relationship and she sort of fell for one of my friends that he had been giving her advice and being there for her as a friend: I love my girl and my baby so much and i feel like i need to change my life to better myself for my family because to admit it we are teen parents ,were both 17. i feel like this is another challenge that God is giving me to better myself for my family. But i just cant seem to give the time for her to miss me i just want my little family back!
2007-01-21 06:41:36 · 5 answers · asked by xX-steve-o-Xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow this is a tough one and my heart goes out to you. you have done the right thing by your girl and your baby. my best advise to you and it is giong to be hard to do. Is give her the space and time that she asked you for. you are both very young and have a lot to deal with. the fact that she has feelings for her ex at this point is irrevenlent.your only both 17 and probably she still doesnt know what she wants yet. If you dont give her the space that she wants it will blow up in your face and you may never get her back. Just dont stop being a important part of your childs life he or she really needs you.....Keep up the good work on that front. Everything will work out it always does.
2007-01-21 06:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Candy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is lucky to have a dad like you. If she left you because she wasnt sure of your relationship, I suggest you stop wanting her back....she isnt just part of that little family, she is your wife, and a mother. She needs help in both departments it seems ...if she cant come to her senses and make this work then spare your lil daughter the pain
2007-01-21 14:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is better to let go. do you see the patern? both of
you are still young and have a child which is why both of you
should consider having a honest open hearted conversation to see what both of want out of this relasionship. what ever changes
you decide must be mutual. remember having a child changes everything, child's best interest must be first.
2007-01-21 15:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by just_cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you not doing you job to make her happy r she just realy isn't the one for you... I am not in the exact situation but I almost was I am 19 and my husband is 21 we have a 3month old and I almost left him because he wasn't doing his job we argued all the time because he would piss me off and do **** that made me feel bad I never told him until it was almost to late maybe thats what it is....
2007-01-21 14:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by The H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not do anything to make her come back. If she wants to come back she will.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 14:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋