My bf has a higher sex drive then me, he wants it all the time but most of the time it doesnt bother me. When I say No he rolls me onto my back to try and get round me and moves my legs. I just lie there and take it, its not forced I just rather be doing something else.
Would you give into your bf if your not in the mood?
2007-01-21 06:38:42 · 11 answers · asked by sugarbabe 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
My husband doesnt have the highest sex drive but its more often then when mine is. If he isnt sensitive to the fact that you dont want it and is still overly persistant when you say no...DO NOT GIVE IN. This only shows him that he'll always get it when he wants it. And it shows a lack of respect for yourself when you give him what he wants when you dont want it.
When im not in the mood i flat out tell my husband no. He knows if he is persistant about it it makes me not want to even more. But if your feeling sorry for him that your never in the mood then give him some oral...thats what I do. My husband wont have sex with me if I know I cant get off (when im not in the mood) because its a turn on for him when he knows I orgasm.
It could also be that your just not sexual attracted to the guy if your never in the mood. Majority of the time I can always get turned on if my husband is willing to put the effort in to woo me. So maybe tell him he needs to cator (sp) to your needs a little more so you'll be in the mood when he is.
2007-01-21 07:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by summers_angel_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a very nice guy and what you described is forced, you probably have as much sex drive as him but apparantly he is not capable of putting you in the mood or just not willing to try, his actions dictate if you will feel aroused or not. Try talking to him about this and if he still is not sensitive to your feelings...find someone who is
2007-01-21 14:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by pslbud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a girlfriend like you. She did not fill me sexually so I moved on with some one who does and that was the end of the problem. She is happy with no sex and I am happy with all the sex I need.
I think that being with someone who has high sex drive. It is just as miserable as being with a dead beat. (in my opinion)
2007-01-21 15:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you enjoy yourself once you get started? Maybe pleasure him orally sometimes when you aren't in the mood, just to keep him happy. Sometimes you aren't in the mood but if you make yourself do it, you end up enjoying it. There will be times where he is just going to have to back off, you don't have to give in every time.
2007-01-21 14:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, well. if you just let him have it whenever he wants than your just spoiling him, the only way you can help his high sex drive problem would be to say no once in a while, it would make sex a better experience if yas didnt do it so much. you should let him now that too so maybe he'll understand as well.
2007-01-21 14:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Erica R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-21 14:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single or married, sex without your consent is called rape. Since you're not married, your "b/f" is committing rape. And I would pity the lawyer who has to defend him.
2007-01-21 16:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by youcanbetonit2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you don't care it's not rape...but it's creepy.
If I honestly didn't want to have sex, no. If I was apathetic, maybe.
2007-01-21 14:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats called rape what he is doing.....tell him no and if he keeps going call the cops. it is wrong and against the law. he also doesnt respect your boundries. brake up with him now!
2007-01-21 14:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mediwizard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes= relationships are a give and take situation
2007-01-23 01:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by sweetness #1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋