2007-01-21 06:06:42 · 15 answers · asked by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should really try talking with her about this. It could be possible that intercourse is painful for her. Other possibilities include:
She isn't able to achieve an orgasm through intercourse (very common).
She is bored with sex (trying different positions may help)
There may be something that you do or don't do during intercourse that makes her prefer to not do it.
Please talk to her! Most marriages experience some bumps along the way. Divorce should never be considered until every other avenue has been explored.
BTW, there are therapists that specialize in this area.
Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-21 06:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by kittykittykitty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did she cheat on you with the 3 guys all at the same time? If that's the case, she's probably not paying any attention to you cuz she's already got some other dude's d!ck in her mouth! Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater! Someone else is getting her lovin'! Leave now and get a STD test asap! My husband's ex wife did the same thing...never paid any attention to him, he later found out she was having men over to their house every night while he was at work (literally a different 1 every night, she was a dispatcher and talked to truck drivers for a living-got their #s @ work & hooked up w/ them every night after work!) !
2016-05-24 06:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the art of foreplay is performed with skill, then sex is ALWAYS a sure deal. might need to brush up on your skills or come up with a few new techniques. Maybe surprise her with some foreplay she might not have seen coming, and I bet she'll be ready to jump your bones!
2007-01-21 06:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by donbenecio 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is an incomplete question - how can you expect good advice if you aren't telling us how long you have been married? Do you live together? Have you talked to her about this?
I would talk to her about these issues!
2007-01-21 06:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave her over something like that. Maybe you should try talking to her.
2007-01-21 06:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by adnama 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You married her knowing of this. Stick it out and work on your marriage.
2007-01-21 06:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can add more details instead of starting to and then closing the question anyway......
but my advice is to talk to her about it, because you would probably find out a lot about her. we can't answer why she wouldn't have sex after you please her.........
2007-01-21 07:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it.
You have to decide what you want to do.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 06:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a new woman and learn basic English
2007-01-21 06:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If English is your first language, I wouldn't have sex with you either!
2007-01-21 06:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋