So I have been with my boyfriend from high school for 3 years. I have came to realize that the love that I used to have for him isn't real & that I was only with him because he gave me comfort and our relationship was only routine. He works with a guy that is 26 years old and has a 4 year old kid and a girlfriend. He lawys talks about how easily he could leave his gf. I get along great with his kid and I love being around them. I find my self thinking of the man all the time and we always flirt back and forth. Is this worth pursuing because I feel that there is a lot that he can offer me as well as I can offer him. I have never felt this way around anyone before and I don't want to let it go.
2007-01-21 05:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by Ash07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
age doesnt make a difference but the fact that he has a gf and child should.find a single guy to move on with
2007-01-21 05:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by starr67 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reading through a magazine one day I found out that the reason why young girls date older guys is usually because they are looking for the love thier fathers never gave them? Do you have a father in your life? I was kinda grossed out when I read this, but it's so important that girls know and understand this. Older guys tend to take advantage of younger girls when they are dating just because they are older- they brain is fully developed...they have been around longer. Also, do you really want to be with a guy that left a woman just beause he thought another woman was better than her? It's possible that he'll do the same to you. I would give it some time. Just see how things work out before you get into a relationship with him.
Take care
And hope this helps.
2007-01-21 13:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by looca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it difficult to advise you to pursue a man with a girlfriend and child. If he does not want to be with his girlfriend, he should leave her. Not leave her for you, just leave her before he starts another relationship....how do you know he wouldn't leave you for another woman sometime in the future if he would leave his current girlfriend and child? Both of you may be flattered by the flirting but in reality how would you feel having broken up a family?
2007-01-21 13:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by MsAdventure 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that man has a kid and a girl friend also!. moreover he boasts how easily he can leave his girlfriend, whereas you find that your boyfriend is not worth your salt. if the man can ditch his gf, he can walk-over you too. find some other cool and sincere friend before you get entangled with all types of unnecessary botherings.
2007-01-21 13:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by me, the curious! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU GUYS ARE BOTH PLAYERS
HE SOUNDS LIKE THE "UNFAITHFUL-AT-WILL" TYPE
and so do you.
I WOULD RECOMMEND THAT YOU BOTH CONSIDER HOW MUCH YOU VALUE YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIPS
IF NOT---- BREAK UP WITH THOSE PEOPLE BEFORE YOU TWO "GET TOGETHER"
Bottom line: Don't cheat on your boyfriend--- It's just not FAIR
2007-01-21 13:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful in that field , because u all are all friends an it will ruin that friendship by far......
2007-01-21 13:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Phyllis W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-21 13:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋