SEX is God-Gifted. Everyone of us need it....Use it...but HIDES it.
LOL.....that's US and our SOCIETY.
It should be set FREE everywhere.
Instead of Hiding it, Education for it's use, controls and whatsoever should be provided to every child as when they becomes learnable and understandable about it.
It will be better to provide them with the perfect Sex educations in home and in schools, instead of letting them pick up false beliefs and tendencies to do it ....from the STREETS or FRIENDS (u can include the NET here also).
They should be taught that SEX is a part of life....like eating a meal or going to the bathroom.
The suspicious tendencies an UNMARRIED one or a growing child developes towards Sex is nothing but a wastage of TIME and EFFORTS which they can put into, to achieve something BETTER in their LIFE.
If all those BOGUS-HOCUS-POCUS regarding Sex are removed from the brain of the Child and are taught to openly take Sex as a part of life ,it will help eliminate diseases like HIVs and also SEX RELATED crimes, in the future generations.
2007-01-21 07:33:43
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answered by naafraat 4
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Yes. They should not know anything about it until they get married. Some people suggest that they need to learn about it before they get married. I would suggest that when people become engaged, they read books about preparing for marriage. It would be a mistake to let kids do what they feel like doing sexually. I was exposed to pornography when I was 6 years old. It had a very bad effect on me. Fortunately, I have become a Christian and I stay away from that stuff like poison. It's the parents' responsibility to teach their children about purity, chastity, and abstinence until marriage. Little boys don't need details. Details will just make a little boy want to explore, and if you're a normal man, you know it's true.
2007-01-21 06:28:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Depends on how deep the sexual content is, now if you are talking ****, then I say yes, if you are talking normal sexual growth talk and experiences then no, I have always had a very open relationship with my children when it came to discussing sexual issues, Sex is part of growing up, you cant shelter them forever and being able to discuss this with your children is much better than keeping it all from them. I think it makes them able to communicate much better with you in the teen years where the pressure of sexuality starts to come alive.
2007-01-21 05:33:20
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answered by cuddles 1
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It is impossible to keep children away from sexual content. There is sexual content in T.V. shows, music, the Internet, books, billboards and anyplace else you can think of. I have even been to church and have them speak of sex. The best thing is to be involved with your kids, learn what they think about sex and educate them on the subject so that they know how to handle it. Experts say that it is never to early to talk to your kids about sex even if its as simple as where babies come from. When you restrict kids from anything without educating them as to why they seem and tend to find out for them self's.
2007-01-21 05:35:01
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answered by darin s 4
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Let them grow as per their own willingness because stifling curiosity only makes the seeker more curious, it breeds hate, and the seeker loses trust in the withholder. While I believe in this philosophy, I don't believe in "throwing caution to the wind" and just giving kids a peep show. Let them ask what they want to know---I would want them to know they could trust me to tell them the truth.
2007-01-21 05:35:00
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answered by Anonymous
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I feel that children should be made aware of sexual abuse in the present day context,as they are seeing t.v.and most of the children are so young that they do not know what they should not see and what they do have to see,so the children should be aware of sexual abuse.
Children are mostly unaware of what they see in the t.v.and are quickly influenced by it.So it the parents duty to make their children know of the fact.The parents should talk to their children in detail about the problems arising due to this.Children are very sensitive and tender at heart so they should be aware of the bad effects of sexual abuse.
2007-01-21 06:18:57
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answered by anu pillai 1
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Yes should not be exposed.
No. they have no maturity to understand certain thing, even grown are not mature some times but local laws an d guide line should be followed.
It is a same that day before what is out of boundary, is in the boundary to-day but we have to draw the lines and be reasonable about it.
2007-01-21 08:45:35
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answered by minootoo 7
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NO.
I had the body book when I was about 6 and i was much more interested in the poo and wee section than 'how babies are made'.
although it wouldn't surprise me if that section has been taken out of the book now.
A few months ago i was changing in the swimming pool changing rooms and a mother with a child of about 4 came past towards the cubicles. she had her hand over his eyes in case he saw any boobs etc. I though to myself, no wonder men think women's bodies are sex objects when they are being taught they are dirty.
2007-01-21 06:25:44
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answered by catherine e 1
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I think the child at age 14 should be able to kiss but not have sex until legal age. If the child wants to do that then you should talk to them about it and tell them the consequences of sex. At the age of fourteen most kids kiss behind their parents back anyways, if you allow them to kiss not only would they trust you more, but you would trust them more.
2007-01-21 08:24:54
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answered by Anonymous
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actually knowledge of sex n sexual content should be given according to their age n requirement
but wen they wud be about to reach pubertic age they must have full knowledge ...so that they can share myths n dont go in wrong direction [health wise too]
bcoz if they really want to get all those stuffs they can arrange easily,even by hiding from u
2007-01-21 06:01:10
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answered by stunning.sheena 2
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