Why won't Married women spend time learning about the male species?

Question

We are so easy to please!!! Feed us, give us love, say what you mean. and all will be well!! Answers from married women?

Answer 1

I like learning about the male species lol... Interesting and fun if you ask me and it helps us learn about our husbands and men in general and why and what they feel the way they do... I wish that men would want to learn about us female species as well. I feel that if we strive to learn about and love each other where they are at and for who they are then our marriages and world will be a much better place. There would be alot less divorces and breakups this way if you know what i mean
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Answer 2

lol thats the biggest line of crap ive ever heard lol..

Hun if that was true men wouldnt ever leave.. and most people would be married rather then divorced..

Men never talk about how they really feel, they will tend to say what they think will make u happy in the moment to shut u up.. Feed them?? Heck ive never once heard 1 man that got a divorce complain that it was cause he was starving.. 3. Most men dont know what love is.. and if u love them, they only get an ego trip out of it to use it against u to do whatever the heck they want cause they know u "love them" and wont leave them even if they do treat u like dirt..

If it was that cut and dry, there would hardly be any divorces.. sorry u need to open ur eyes and take a hard look at reality..

Answer 3

Well I see your name fits you well because you are a joke! MEN will only be happy in a relationship when they are allowed to be "Man", but can act like a child. You guys want everything your own way! News flash for you hun, this is a new generation and women bring in as much and in many cases more then men do. Feed us, give us love, and say what you mean, and we will be happy!

Answer 4

Why doesn't married men spend time learning about the female species ?

Answer 5

Women, for all their bragging about "understanding", only understand other women.

They have no clue or real interest in learning how men think. Notice how virtually all books are directed towards "how to understand women". They just think for men it's all sex, period. Don't get me wrong -- sex is huge. But in actuality, men are complex as well-- it's just that most women quite honestly just dismiss us with a wave of the hand, "aw he's thinking with his dick."

But say a woman is "thinking with her snatch" and you'll get a 3-hour lecture, you insensitive b a s t a r d! ;-)

Add to that married women tend to think "Well, I've got my man, now he can spend his life figuring me out and I can change him so he dresses right, thinks right, listens right, etc."

Free entertainment for the neighbors.

To 'SELDOM' above: you are one in a million, and you have all the important stuff figured out. Outstanding. You're quite a catch.

Answer 6

I spent 24 years "learning" about you guys.

Here's just a tad of what I know.

You are very visual creatures. You love to look, to watch, you need the visual stimulation. Your sexual fantasies are rich and need to be fed if you are to be truly happy.

Your egos are fragile. You need to know that you are good providers, good lovers, good friends and good men. The woman who can communicate that to you thru her touch, her words and her actions is the woman who will be able to keep you and the one who you will never cheat on.

You need shelter from the world. Men also need to be safe emotionally. While you guys don't often speak your minds you do have strong emotions, deep thoughts and the world and your position in it often weighs heavily upon your shoulders. It's very hard to be a man with the way their roles are changing. A woman who understands this and offers herself as a refuge and who listens to her man's heart and his dreams will keep him.

Most men do not care for drama, lies, glitter or fakes. They want real women who have their own lives and who are sure of themselves. They tire of always having to make the first move and are sometimes relieved when a woman like me asks a man like them if he might not mind to buy me a drink.

So, I stayed after school, studied hard, but tell me then, why am I alone today? My man of 24 years left me anyway. Put a gun to his head. I'm alone now and wondering why.

*sigh*

Answer 7

Married women have no interest in finding out about other men, they have a man that they only need to be interested in and that is their husbands that is why they are called married women.

Answer 8

I wish it were that easy. I'm not married yet, but I will be later this year, and I've tried all that you mentioned. It only works for a little while. Once he becomes accustomed to it, he isn't as appreciative anymore. I know not all guys are like that, but that has been my experience.

Answer 9

Once you are married you do not need to learn about men. you have your own species to study and observe.
Give a man a beer and let him see something naked and he is happy.

Answer 10

hahaha first off, your sex is very much like my own sex when it comes to relationships, we all feel we make ourselves clear, yet at the same time...there are still many shades of grey the best we all can do is accept the faults of our partners, let each other become spiritually evolved and when mistakes are made do not harp upon them. Like the beatles say: all we need is love, yet we still need to allow for mistakes in order to truly get along with each other.


Cheers!