well, i heard this story about a girl who got raped then she got pregnant due to that rape, and she was only like 14 or 15, and she decided to not have an abortion! i mean, wasnt it traumatizing enough to get raped but then to be a pregnant teenager?! and i know that this happens to many people (teenagers) and they decide to keep the baby...i know if i was in her place i would definately get an abortion... my question is how can someone go through with something like that? how can someone have such a strong heart?
2007-01-21 04:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she had the baby she would look and see the rape all over again and again
2007-01-21 04:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thoughts of having an abortion is abhorent to me. it is not the baby's fault for the actions of an immmoral man. if after birth you could still not abide the thoughts of raising the child (or could not afford to do so) there are many, many couples out there who would love to have a child but can't.
a strong heart makes for a beautiful person. sometimes the easiest solutions to what we consider problems are not always the best ones. people with strong hearts know all about this.
take for instance the problems in iraq--we are losing many american lives by being over there fighting, what if the US just bombed them like we did Japan? it would be over, just like that--but what about all the innocent men women and children that we would kill?-------easiest is not always the best way to go.
2007-01-21 12:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone who has gone through such a devastating experience may be resolving somewhere in mind that no matter what, her spirit can not be allowed to be broken and that she has to come out on top in the end. The situation presents a challenge to her and she wants to prove to herself and in the process set herself extremely difficult, if not impossible, targets to achieve. May be, just may be, this is a possible explanation of the problem you have put forth.
2007-01-21 12:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by abhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she has strong religous beliefs, some people believe that abortions are a sin. And maybe... she just wanted to have her baby. She knows that it wasn't her fault that she got pregnant, and it wouldn't be fair to her child to not give him/her a chance to live too, and have a better life than she did.
2007-01-21 12:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called love! Love for a child that will be cared for and adored by a good family and not punished for another's crime. Sometimes you have to use your heart and not your head. You just have to!
2007-01-21 12:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she dose not have the heart to kill the baby. yes she did go trow a lot but she did not want to see that baby die
2007-01-21 13:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by kayleewimmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they know that they are doing the right thing in the long run
2007-01-21 12:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Chris's Baby Girl '07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she didnt choose to go througn that it was put on her, she has no choice but to deal with it
2007-01-21 12:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋