Is ok to withold sex from a husband until he tells u the truth about something u think he lied about and no i dont mean cheating
2007-01-21 04:31:53 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Christianity say is wrong. They want married women to be sex slaves. But I don't see the in the Bible.
I won't give it to him. Well if you do it's not like you're going to put much effort into it anyways. sometimes with holding sex is the last way to get a guys attention
2007-01-21 04:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be okay for him then to find sex somewhere else? Witholding sex is a nasty thing to do, especially if you are basing it off of some circumstancial evidence. How do you know that he hasn't already told you the truth? Counseling would be a better alternative.
2007-01-21 04:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's cool.
Sex should not take the place of cash, of food or of comfort. It should only be used to express love and devotion. To withhold is childish, immature and can damage your relationship.
If you need the truth, use your other skills. Grown women have other ways. Try honesty and good communication. And know that you may never get what you want. But leave sex out of it.
2007-01-21 04:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Witholding sex when angry with someone is natural. Who wants to make love to a person when you'd rather smack them?
But you should try to talk it out as soon as possible. Harboring resentment is bad for a marriage--my exhole did it until it KILLED the marriage!
2007-01-21 04:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is your body and you are free to do with it what you want, including withholding sex from your husband. however i do not find this method a healthy one. if you cut him for too long, he will find another way to relieve his sexual frustrations, and then that would most certainly cause a new problem for you two, and start another argument of you know he's not getting any from you, so
where is he getting it from then? see where i am going here? i don't believe in punishing hubby's by withholding sex. find another source of pain to stick him with, like not doing HIS laundry for a few weeks, or some other thing you know will drive him crazy, but as far as sex, you could slow things down a little, but don't cut him off completely. you could be taking a chance for your marriage to hit very bumpy roads ahead and i know you don't want that now do you?
2007-01-21 04:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by lrfoster7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think witholding sex is a big punishment for a man. What about communicating him how you truly feel instead of punishing him?
2007-01-21 04:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you feel good about yourself having sex with him if you were angry. I believe that making love to my husband is a very spiritaul beautiful experience. It would be nothing if one of us was mad at the other.
I guess in a meaningful marriage, I would think that the two individuals would want to find better ways to resolve a problem than just to withhold sex.
2007-01-21 06:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think withholding sex from any partner, is only going to more problems than the current. Its going to lead to resentment and eventually for some I am sure infedility. So, No, I wouldn't
recommend it for any marriages. Communication is the key and
there should be openess and honesty. If you don't have that, there is more problems in the marriage than just withholding sex, but that is my opinion . :o) Goodluck
2007-01-21 05:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be playing with fire doing that. If you keep it from him too long you might push him to go get it somewhere else. Talk to him, communication is important. Let him know how you feel and just explain to him that you want the truth no matter what. Maybe he is scared your going to be mad about something. Honesty is very important in any relationship. Good Luck
2007-01-21 05:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, biblically no, it's not okay. Until three months ago I would have strongly advised against it. It is manipulative. But you know what, some men require manipulation. Reasoning and simply requesting things is a way to premature gray hair, lots of tears and stress. It is not okay but it makes sense. Now that I've confused you, let it be said that regardless of what you do, you cannot MAKE him tell you, but only hope that he will. Sorry, girl.
2007-01-21 04:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋