He has been so perverted lately. I'm 15 and hes 14. I've known him for a few years but never really was friends with him. i made friends with some freshman this year and he and i were talking. lately hes been such a pervert trying to throw things down my shirt and is like saying stuff like you know you want me. Then he laughs, Its so weird because I never ever gave him anything to make him think I like him as more of a friend. I asked him to stop but he continues. Im really tired of it. Its gotten worse since the girl hes in love with ( a freshman) started dating one of my friends. How do I get him to stop!
2007-01-21 04:28:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm a sophmore
2007-01-21 04:28:53 · update #1
U_wish if you read my question at the beginning it clearly says that Im 15
2007-01-21 04:35:35 · update #2
Tell him you dont like the things he's been saying and kick him to the curb. If he is really your friend he will obey your need.
2007-01-21 04:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Deanna :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I'm in EXACTALLY the same position. I;m a sophmore too.If you ask him nicely and he still hasn't stopped tell him you will report him for sexual harrasment. In high school things get taken a lot mroe seriously. Also you could try just ignoring him and sitting with some of your upperclassmen friends and just ditch him for a while so he'll lean that you aren't playing around and you're serious when you tell him to stop.
2007-01-21 12:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ellion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your ground, tell him to stop, that you are not interested in him that way and if it continues remove yourself from him where you are not in a situation to be alone or near him. Hard to do in school I know! Boys that age don't always necessarily know how to act and quite honestly it sounds like this could be a case of him trying to get back at or get attention from the girl you mention he is in love with by using you - the connection to her.
2007-01-21 13:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by chick33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a pretty typical (ie immature) 14 yo boy trying to get your attention and make you like him. He doesn't have the social skills to ask you out, and is probably worried about rejection, so he turns it into a joke.
You've got to make it REALLY clear his behaviour is not on - or else stop having contact with him. You could also threaten to tell his parents: most boys would hate the thought of their parents knowing about their pervy behaviour.
2007-01-21 21:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sad that you can say it on the computer but you can not say it to him.If he truly is your friend you should be able to tell him anything,especially the way you feel about what he is doing to you.If it matters any,it sounds like he likes you and is a little childish about the way he is trying to go about showing you.Good luck!
2007-01-21 12:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by zinubes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you as more then a friend. I've had guys do that to me before and come to find out they like me. The best thing to do is try to embarrass them to the point they won't do it anymore.
2007-01-21 13:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by shele9806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are just like that at that age. they've got too many hormones. i remember guys always trying to throw ice down my shirt or unhook my bra when they sat behind. he's not a perv he's just a boy, it's what they do.
2007-01-21 12:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by boo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore and they stop...guys like that do things like that to get a reaction. Tell him to grow up!
2007-01-21 12:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's the typical juvenile male.Time will hopefully help him to learn better,but if he makes you uncomfortable,avoid him and when he asks why,tell him straight,for his own good !!
2007-01-21 13:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If hes making you that uncomfortable (which i'd say he is) you have to show and tell him that his behavious is completely unacceptable. act disgusted and tell him so if he does anything.
Good luck!
2007-01-21 15:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋