she's 16 and is pregnant with this jerks kid. i didn't even know they were sleeping together until she told me she was pregnant and she had to get rid of it cause her Dr said she was going to have risks and maybe even die....she wants me to come with her. i think she might have just said that because she knows how i feel about abortion. is it actually dangerous for or might she be making this up....
no matter what, even if she is lying to me, i will still stick by her.
2007-01-21 03:57:46 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
maybe it really could be dangerous for her. But its a good thing that no matter what you will stick by her side, she needs freidns like you hat would do that. If she is lying maybe you should ask her and talk to her about it, but dont get mad at her for the choices she makes becasue you dont believe in them. There are alot of people out there that are prochoice that have alot of friend that are prolife. I think everyone needs to make a decision and if they choose abortion then they need to do it before the baby gets too big. i hope you figure things out, good luck
2007-01-21 04:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that she's having problems, but if she was really at risk, her Dr. would be monitoring her closely and probably would have set her up to have her pregnancy terminated. Ask her exactly what those risks are, if the Dr. told her, then she should be able to tell you. Do what is right for you, if you are completely against abortion and don't feel comfortable going, then don't. If you feel like the support you can offer her outweighs your own opinion on abortion, then stick by her and be there for her afterwards, she will be going through a lot emotionally.
2007-01-21 04:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if she is lying or not. some people may have complications with pregnanccy but even if she is lying just for areason that seems better for her to have an abortion than i would just stand by her side whatever her decision is. shes probably afraid. and as much as she may be against abortion too it may just be what she needs to do at this point in her life. it suck and is unfortunate. maybe later on when the two of you are older and she has moved on you can ask her again what really happened. chances are if she is older and mature she might tell you the truth. right now shes probably scared and just needs some support.
2007-01-21 04:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by mamamia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sticking by her side is an act of a true friend. She will need emotional support if she does get an abortion because the will have to deal with the "What If's" afterward and she may feel some guilt about doing it as she gets older.
2007-01-21 04:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jolene S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mary f did no longer could desire to be so harsh/rude...it extremely is not what she asked. besides...particular you are able to regrettably you're able to have an abortion up till 24 weeks, unhappy huh? That over a million/2 the being pregnant, yet its stated as a prior due term abortion. Did she look to wish the infant till now the abortion? if so, consistent with danger her aunt talked her into getting one. by skill of asserting "sturdy riddance" i've got self assurance like she did no longer want it. if so she could desire to have aborted a lot faster. yet some human beings do no longer see abortion as a topic. So she probably would not care she killed her infant...a infant is dependable at 25 weeks meaning it may desire to have lived via many machines. As for her mendacity. She could desire to be, or she won't have. At 23 weeks pregnant she could have a infant bump or no less than have acknowledged like she grow to be getting overweight interior the tummy section. So if her physique did no longer exchange in any respect she probably grow to be mendacity... Its your option to be acquaintances together with her or no longer, in case you experience like she is a liar, discover new acquaintances because of the fact purely god is conscious what else she lies approximately.
2016-11-26 00:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of knowing for sure. But if you are sticking by her side, it really does not matter. She will need you after wards for emotional support.
Help her through this and teach her about birth control to prevent future occurrences.
2007-01-21 04:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just tell her what you said in your last sentance - that whatever her reasons you are willing to be her emotional support.
Yes, there are circumstances where pregnancy can be very dangerous. Whether she is telling the truth is something none of us can judge from here.
2007-01-21 04:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kahuna Burger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is lying but at 16 with a baby she will not get far teach her about birth control
2007-01-21 04:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give her a break and try not judging her private decisions on such a personal subject. If you can do that, yes, go with her, she obviously needs support.
2007-01-21 04:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No telling whether she is lying or not. I would make sure she learns about birth control for sure. It is your choice to be with her when she goes for the abortion, just like it's her choice to get the abortion. Personally, I would not accompany anyone to murder their own baby, no matter what kind of friend they are. There are some things I couldn't bring myself to do. But, again, that's just my opinion. You should think really hard about what you want to do and talk to her about it.
2007-01-21 04:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋