why does it hurt so bad and why can we just move on becouse everytime i try to move on the love is not the same and i brake up with them
2007-01-21 03:51:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's hard to leave a person that was so much of your life and that's why you can't forget. It's too hard to forget someone that you spent so much time with and did so many things with. But eventually the person for you will come, you can't be afraid you have to put your heart out there for that one person that will come out and take it and cherish it. Just try to move on that's the best you can do. Good Luck :)!
2007-01-21 03:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by soccerwarrior00 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that if you go through several relationships, (NO offense) but that might be something you may have to work on for yourself. OR maybe you just have bad luck on pickiong out the right guys.ALWAYS get to know the guy very well before trying anything - ask your friends about him, test him out and see how he handles certain situations. Think about it this way, as much as you may want to have them in your life ASAP, the longer you wait the more you get tot know them and you'll have even a closer relationship when it starts. Just dont wait too long casue they may end up with someone else.
2007-01-21 12:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love is such a big thing for us. It brings such feelings of joy in our lives. Because we really like the person who we are with. It is the biggest disappointment possible, when you realize that you were wrong about them and they aren't as great as they seemed, or that they don't like you anymore while you still love all the beauty in them. Just how life is. You gotta take the good with the bad. One day love will work out for you if you try hard enough.
2007-01-21 11:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did anybody ever leave or abandon you when you were little, such as parents or a trusted guardian? If you are the one leaving love, you may have a commitment problem. When love starts to get too deep for you, you start feeling unsafe. Something inside of you may say: "I don't want them to be the first to hurt me, and if I leave now I won't have to be more hurt later when we are more involved and have more at stake". It's the tough element inside of you that is not allowing you to move forward. Take a quiet moment with yourself and ask yourself what exactly you feel will happen if you continue to stay with that person? What is it that you fear the most? When you do this focus on you and only answer with answers starting in "I feel". Try to keep others our of your answers by referring only to yourself. In other words don't say "I feel this because of that person". That is blaiming others for our feelings. The point of this exercise is to really feel your own feelings instead of giving them to others. Be in your own power and allowing yourself to feel is your key in my opinion.
2007-01-21 12:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Way2Be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts when love ends, but that's because it wasn't meant to last, when it is, and you find the one, it won't hurt, it'll be the best thing that has ever happened to you.
When you put your heart out there, and give yourself to another person, and it ends, it's supposed to hurt, but you learn from the bad relationships what not to do when the real thing comes along.
When you find it, real, true, forever love, you'll forget about all the past hurts, and you'll live the love you've found.
2007-01-21 11:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'ts really tough to forget specially when u r hurt after falling in love.....Charge it to experience and next time u know how to handle the problem...and this experience will build u as a strong woman but not a man hater....hi hi hi...just kidding...Be wise specially to this matter....GOD bless u...
2007-01-21 12:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by raven angelus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋